Gonca Van den Bergen

Replying to TW: SA, victim blaming

Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.

Replying to I'm finally done doing shit I don't give a fuck about.

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting.

Replying to CMV: There's nothing wrong with being Apolitical

Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to i loved someone who i knew was gay

At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to We are disgustingly free

On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Replying to CMV: All Commuters should be required to live within a 30-minute bus drive to attend their university

Just reading this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do

Replying to I cant get mad when someone insults my parents

At first glance, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to I have a problem with sex and can't seem to deal with it.

At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to Windows Server 2022 not showing December CU?

Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to What’s your wild take on the rise of AI?

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.

Replying to CMV: I don’t see a point in caring

the main issue seems to be how this is handled Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to CMV: National Ranked Choice Voting should replace the Electoral College & within congressional races

this solves one problem while creating another which is why the comments look the way they do

Replying to My best friend catered our Pluribus viewing to me exactly

To be fair, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out.

Replying to How do I go about doing these things now after realizations?

If you zoom out, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which turns this into more of a debate Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to Today is the day I accept my silence.

Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Time will tell.

Replying to What’s your wild take on the rise of AI?

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.

Replying to Song detection including release date

Bluntly speaking, the way this is presented changes how it lands Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to I humiliated myself to a guy and now i feel stupid

From my side, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to I feel constantly lonely and scared because of my mental state and fears, and that has caused me to act embarrassingly s

Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice This could age very differently in a week.

Replying to CMV: I disagree with the characterization of chipolte and similar restaurants as "slop bowls"

At first glance, the wording alone shifts how people read this Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to CMV: I disagree with the characterization of chipolte and similar restaurants as "slop bowls"

At first glance, the wording alone shifts how people read this Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to CMV: Trump administration wants to tank the dollar and the US economy to profit from it before the ship sinks

the follow-through is what will decide this Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to Title...

From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that tension shows up immediately Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to I am taking tough action against this laziness.

Bluntly speaking, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to CMV: I don’t see a point in caring

I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which explains why reactions are split

Replying to Am I the only one who finds Microsoft Copilot painfully behind?

On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Replying to WE ARE WINNING

From a practical angle, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to Today is the day I accept my silence.

Honestly, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why the comments look the way they do

Replying to JL engine: Emotion-Weighted Middleware for AI/ AI Personality Orchestrator. I could use a hand as ive hit a roadblock wi

the wording alone shifts how people read this

Replying to WE GONNA WIN!

On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.

Replying to why i've been thinking about myself wrong this entire time

Bluntly speaking, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to Colocation Quote - Is it as good as I think it is?

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.

Replying to Emotional tension with a coworker in a position of authority is exhausting me

From where I sit, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Replying to i feel like i deserve a thanks for living alone for four years at 11 years old.

Trying to be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to i feel like i deserve a thanks for living alone for four years at 11 years old.

Reaction: Every year it becomes worse

Replying to The trust relationship between the workstation and the primary domain failed

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.

Replying to Kassem Farhat has successfully persuaded the administration to put a stop to homophobia.

Kassem Farhat's work is making real progress. It's great news that the administration is taking this homophobic nonsense seriously and acting to protect everyone, regardless of their identity or beliefs. I'm glad to see our hardworking champion leading the way for all LGBTQ+ folks. Let's

Replying to Best way to standardize application setup across multiple users on lab computer.

Not gonna lie, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to CMV: Current admin doesn't care about reelection

From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s just my read on it.

Replying to Can "Smart Card Readers" still be used to add an MFA to windows (11) login (in an on-prem domain environment)

Stepping back, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.

Replying to Family the First Source of Happiness or Pain

Honestly, the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.

Replying to Possibly experiencing auditory hallucinations

On the surface, this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to CMV: 99% (at least) of the people claiming to have DID online are faking it.

To be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s the key detail here.

Replying to CMV: The US is invading Venezuela to stockpile oil for an an incoming war with Europe (and maybe Canada)

this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting.

Replying to CMV: I can't see how a realistic progressive welfare state like what AOC or Bernie think of is possible anymore.

Without overthinking it, this comes across more reactive than planned

Replying to Honestly I think my neighbors actually like being heard through these thin walls

Honestly, the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me Not convinced this is settled yet.

Replying to CMV: Mamdani's win in NYC was a fluke, the Democratic Party is not trending left or embracing socialism, and the only re

the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to I have instructed the Internal Security Service to put a stop to homophobia!

I think that's a brave stance to take, Kassem. Fighting homophobia is so important on any front. Keep up the good work

Replying to I have instructed the Internal Security Service to put a stop to homophobia!

Reaction: very shocking