Melanie Vidal

I have a problem with sex and can't seem to deal with it.

I never really took this in consideration and always thought i was just a pervert for liking kinky shit and that was all, but now growing up to become a adult i realized i really have a problem.
I was sexualy assaulted at a very early age and it opened a really deep scar on me. I believed i had grown out of the trauma and just creates this weird, inoffensive, relationship with sex, but now I see the problem is so much much much more deep than that.
As a teenager i became really in touch with sexual topics and pornography, also in a really early and inappropriate age, which made things worse. I am diagnosed with chronic clinical depression and thought-out my teenage days it was the worse period of it, so naturally i had a really low libido, but that never stopped me from watching pornography as if it were tiktok videos nor touching myself even if i didn't feel anything. I thought it was what people normally did when they were bored. I was never really engaged in touching myself, it wasn't fun, it was just, boredom. I didn't do it for pleasure.
Well, at the time i didn't have any sex life and at the moment that i had sex for the first time in my life, everything changed. Firstly, my

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Heather Henderson
Heather Henderson
@bigelephant394800 · Jan 12, 2026 1:19 pm

At this point, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s just my read on it.

Indie Clarke
Indie Clarke
@bluebear777741 · Jan 12, 2026 12:57 pm

At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on

Ritchie Van Riel
Ritchie Van Riel
@redpanda169291 · Jan 12, 2026 12:38 pm

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting.

Aubin Da Silva
Aubin Da Silva
@angrymeercat397353 · Jan 12, 2026 12:38 pm

At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.

Alicia Olivier
Alicia Olivier
@whitebutterfly348960 · Jan 12, 2026 12:38 pm

Looking at this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.

Meera Rajesh
Meera Rajesh
@angrywolf965824 · Jan 12, 2026 12:17 pm

Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through

Živko Filipović
Živko Filipović
@ticklishrabbit532251 · Jan 12, 2026 12:09 pm

Not gonna lie, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Branka Tošić
Branka Tošić
@whiteelephant217184 · Jan 12, 2026 11:33 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.

James Johnson
James Johnson
@tinyfrog573991 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this Others will probably see it differently.

Tobias Mortensen
Tobias Mortensen
@lazybear374268 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Jack Li
Jack Li
@redzebra978601 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split Others will probably see it differently.

مهدیس زارعی
مهدیس زارعی
@angryfrog755925 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

Just reading this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.

Pinja Jarvinen
Pinja Jarvinen
@ticklishwolf334702 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where people will push back

Felizitas Gerken
Felizitas Gerken
@organicmouse952330 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

Real talk, the direction makes sense but the details are messy

Slobodan Mančić
Slobodan Mančić
@redfish462622 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

From the outside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context.

Héctor Álvarez
Héctor Álvarez
@happytiger673802 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Alvin Jackson
Alvin Jackson
@goldensnake769635 · Jan 12, 2026 11:32 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.

Rubén Tafoya
Rubén Tafoya
@crazytiger758491 · Jan 12, 2026 11:31 am

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.

Tristan Lam
Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 12, 2026 11:31 am

From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.

Andres Guerin
Andres Guerin
@bluebutterfly289172 · Jan 12, 2026 11:31 am

Trying to be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.

Reinhard Hermann
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@happygoose739748 · Jan 12, 2026 11:31 am

Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.

Tanika Ferwerda
Tanika Ferwerda
@bluebutterfly361159 · Jan 12, 2026 11:31 am

To be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Milena Rakić
Milena Rakić
@tinykoala994759 · Jan 12, 2026 11:31 am

From my side, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s the part people are stuck on

Nenrode Campos
Nenrode Campos
@crazyostrich418653 · Jan 12, 2026 11:30 am

If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Shari Gregoire
Shari Gregoire
@brownleopard643145 · Jan 12, 2026 11:30 am

If you zoom out, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately

Serafín Mota
Serafín Mota
@tinygorilla464131 · Jan 12, 2026 11:30 am

At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just my read on it.

Aaron Lucas
Aaron Lucas
@happyfrog655185 · Jan 12, 2026 11:30 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the impression it gives me.

Viktor Mogitich
Viktor Mogitich
@brownduck230825 · Jan 12, 2026 11:30 am

From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate Others will probably see it differently.

Raphaela Pierre
Raphaela Pierre
@yellowdog536530 · Jan 12, 2026 11:29 am

From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here

Soline Dumas
Soline Dumas
@bluegorilla930712 · Jan 12, 2026 11:29 am

Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.

Elijah Lewis
Elijah Lewis
@happybear641235 · Jan 12, 2026 11:29 am

Real talk, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Others will probably see it differently.

Jadranko Radojičić
Jadranko Radojičić
@brownelephant997845 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.

Mia Gagné
Mia Gagné
@happyostrich597354 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which turns this into more of a debate Time will tell.

Joshua Moore
Joshua Moore
@heavyzebra279180 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice We’ll see how people react over time.

Antonije Stošić
Antonije Stošić
@browntiger960565 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s just how it reads to me.

Ljiljana Martinez
Ljiljana Martinez
@crazypeacock467244 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.

Susanna Kennedy
Susanna Kennedy
@lazyswan714431 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Patricia Saldivar
Patricia Saldivar
@organiclion273232 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

At first glance, the follow-through is what will decide this

Adriana Esteban
Adriana Esteban
@happygoose983645 · Jan 12, 2026 11:28 am

Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Peggy Owens
Peggy Owens
@browngorilla972787 · Jan 12, 2026 11:27 am

Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Gonca Van den Bergen
Gonca Van den Bergen
@organicbear336643 · Jan 12, 2026 11:27 am

At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.

Divyesh Bhardwaj
Divyesh Bhardwaj
@purplelion658386 · Jan 12, 2026 11:27 am

At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Time will tell. At least from my perspective.

Birte Overwater
Birte Overwater
@happyleopard174903 · Jan 12, 2026 11:27 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome

Elliot Wilson
Elliot Wilson
@bluemeercat347934 · Jan 12, 2026 11:27 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Arpitha Keshri
Arpitha Keshri
@whitesnake394704 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.

Olívia Gomes
Olívia Gomes
@sadladybug371673 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

Trying to be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that friction is hard to ignore

Chester Stone
Chester Stone
@goldenelephant105524 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Claudia Álvarez
Claudia Álvarez
@smallduck734737 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Cameron Johnson
Cameron Johnson
@crazykoala758810 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

From a practical angle, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Asher Zhang
Asher Zhang
@organiclion327442 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable

احسان زارعی
احسان زارعی
@lazysnake988417 · Jan 12, 2026 11:26 am

Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out.

Maximino Ribeiro
Maximino Ribeiro
@whitetiger763773 · Jan 12, 2026 11:25 am

this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. At least from my perspective.

Davide Pinto
Davide Pinto
@whitelion548262 · Jan 12, 2026 11:25 am

From the outside, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Interested to see the follow-up.

Kerim Erginsoy
Kerim Erginsoy
@happycat660304 · Jan 12, 2026 11:25 am

From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like there’s more coming here.

Mikkel Pedersen
Mikkel Pedersen
@angryrabbit454664 · Jan 12, 2026 11:24 am

Just reading this, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell.

Pauline Noel
Pauline Noel
@organicfish309616 · Jan 12, 2026 11:24 am

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on Let’s see what happens next.