i loved someone who i knew was gay
i dated someone for 4 years and knew from the start he was gay and wished he was a woman. before we dated he identified as transgender and had also been sleeping around with a lot of men. he then completely switched up and said it was a phase and he’s not a woman and doesn’t actually like men ?
i loved him and wanted the love he said he had for me to be true. i could never trust him which made me do stupid things. when i would ask questions i was shut down immediately. why i stayed for 4 years don’t know.
i feel disgusted with the things we had done together. things i never wanted to do, but did it anyways to make him happy. i don’t know why i didnt try harder to express how uncomfortable things made me. my first partnership has been soiled by a closeted man.
i never felt feminine with him, i never felt pretty and safe. i always felt like i was the man in the relationship and it genuinely ruined my self esteem. i felt like it was my fault that he was so disconnected with the feelings of our relationship, so detached all the time but it was never about me it was just him. he never felt present, ever.
its hard for me to speak about this to friends and family because i feel so much sh
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet.
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
At first glance, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Not convinced this is settled yet.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore Interested to see the follow-up.
Just reading this, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
the wording alone shifts how people read this Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, this depends heavily on what happens next Hard to say where this lands long term.
If you zoom out, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting.
At this point, this depends heavily on what happens next This could age very differently in a week.
Bluntly speaking, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s just my read on it.
this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate
Not gonna lie, the follow-through is what will decide this Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell.
At this point, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s the part people are stuck on Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Not gonna lie, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
From where I sit, this feels more about execution than intent That’s the impression it gives me.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me.
Trying to be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned Feels like there’s more coming here.
To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here.
Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
this comes across more reactive than planned Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which makes the reaction pretty predictable
On the surface, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a practical angle, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here.
On the surface, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split Others will probably see it differently.
From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
this comes across more reactive than planned This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
If you zoom out, this depends heavily on what happens next and that tension shows up immediately
On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what makes this interesting.
this solves one problem while creating another which explains why reactions are split Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why opinions are all over the place
From where I sit, this depends heavily on what happens next At least from my perspective.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me.
From the outside, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why this is getting picked apart Curious how this plays out.
If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what makes this interesting.
the timing matters more than people admit Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where it gets complicated
On the surface, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.