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@whiterabbit521226 · Jan 10, 2026

Anyone remember the optimism around the Arab spring

I remember being in middle school learning about the Arab spring as it was happening and then in high school about the reasons for the protests yet I find it kinda sad how it didn’t change much. Egypt and Tunisia seem to be under a dictatorship more authoritarian, corrupt and as incompetent than the previous governments. Syria just ended(?) a civil war yet the country is in shambles and parts of the country are still in war, the gulf states are still under theoretical monarchy. Only nation I can think of that’s improved has been Lebanon.
Kinda sad a movement of so much optimism and hope turned into nothing but conflicts.

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@whiterabbit521226 · Jan 10, 2026

Found out my boyfriend was cheating on me and needed to vent

Just as the title says. I found out last night that my boyfriend has cheated on me. Luckily I only wasted a few months with him but I think I’m still in shock? Because I haven’t cried and honestly I feel pretty good because I thought I was going crazy. It was with another coworker too!(We both work in the same place). The worst thing about this is that a few people knew the he was cheating on me with that girl and did not tell me. I recently had a gut feeling I couldn’t shake and whenever I brought it up to him, he dismissed me and assured that he has never contacted her outside of work and lo and behold he’s been texting her for at least a couple months (don’t know for sure when it started because the screenshots I have don’t have the start of their messaging). He’s telling her that he wants to kiss her, so glad to have her in his life, and telling her she’s kinky. But as soon as I found out, I packed my shit and left. He woke up confused on why I was leaving and I confronted him hoping he would fess up but alas he chose to dig his hole deeper. I told him I had proof and he had the AUDACITY to say that it’s “fake” screenshots but I 100% know it’s real. And basically threatened to

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@whiterabbit521226 · Jan 10, 2026

19F Posting myself on looksmaxxing communities ruined my life

I've always been insecure in my apperance since I was a kid, I was always chubbier than other children my age. I struggled with binge eating/disordered eating for a while and once I graduated high school and started college, end of 2024, I was finally feeling confident and felt happy about myself. I had gained a bit of weight since I went through a breakup and spent a lot of it binge eating, but It was also when I felt the most confident in myself and I finally felt like I was worth people being nice to me or even just being out in public.
That all changed, I was talking to me friend about those looksmaxxing communties or other subreddits where they objectivily rate you. I was in a bit of a depressive episode at the time and I wasn't as happy about myself as I usually were and I posted myself, I didn't tell anybody around me. I just got too curious and I wondered what they would say.
In a matter of minutes my comments were flood with people saying how I was a "3/10, 4/10 if you lost the weight", that my only bet was to "reincarnate", or that I was subhuman. I knew I shouldn't let it get to me, but I couldn't stop thinking about it. My insecurity really hurt me because one of the on