If you're incapable of violence, you're not peaceful -- you're harmless.
Just thought I'd put that out there.
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Lada Subašić
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Do you attend your high school reunions? Or your college or military reunions?
I had very few friends in high school so I never felt it was necessary to go to my high school reunions. Same with college.
Plus, now that Facebook exists, if I want to see what my old classmates look like now, I can just find many of them online anyway.
What about you? Do you go to any of your reunions?
Struggling with emotions
I was asked recently by my ex if I loved him because I needed him, or if I needed him because I loved him. I have been pondering this question all week. Which was it? I am not sure. Maybe that’s why he is now my ex. How does one know the difference and does it matter why you love someone?
My friend got married last month and their planning process was so different from what I expected
My best friend got married last month in Portland and I was pretty involved in the whole thing since I was in the wedding party. I guess I always thought wedding planning was like picking a venue and a dress and that's mostly it but there were so many random things they had to figure out that I never even thought about.
Like they had to decide on insurance stuff because she works for a startup with better benefits than his company has. And whether to change names, which turned into this whole thing because she's published research papers under her current name. And a bunch of legal paperwork I didn't know existed. Also seating charts are apparently a nightmare and take weeks because his parents are divorced and don't get along and don't even get me started on the vendor contracts and deposit timelines.
They've been together since college so like 7 years but apparently there's still stuff that comes up during planning that they'd never talked about before.
I'm not engaged or anything but now I'm kind of wondering what other stuff I have no clue about. It was just interesting seeing it all happen up close instead of just showing up to the wedding at the end.
Did anyone else feel this way watching someone close to them get married or going through it yourself?
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