Giulia Mathieu

@saddog685341

Le Mans, France Joined Jan 2026

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Giulia Mathieu

@saddog685341 · Jan 12, 2026

I love my wife and kid, but sex with my wife does nothing for me

I love my family. I love my wife. I love my daughter. I show up, I provide, I am committed.
But sexually, I am miserable.
I do not enjoy sex with my wife. This is not because something does not work physically. I get aroused. I get horny. But sex itself feels dead, routine, and emotionally empty. There is no passion, no excitement, no real connection. It feels like going through the motions, not intimacy.
We did try to fix it. We talked about it multiple times. We tried changing things. We tried effort, patience, and being open and honest. Nothing worked. The core feeling never changed, and after a while it becomes clear that trying harder does not fix incompatibility.
Emotionally and practically, we function well. As partners and as parents, we are solid. But physically, we are completely mismatched, and I do not know how you compromise your way out of that.
Because of this, I feel sexually deprived. Not just in terms of frequency, but fulfillment. I miss wanting sex and actually enjoying it. I miss feeling desired instead of tolerated. I miss feeling engaged instead of bored and frustrated.
The worst part is the confusion. I can love my wife deeply and still not want sex with her

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@saddog685341 · Jan 12, 2026

Enola Lemoine

@happyrabbit790773 · Jan 12, 2026 5:14 am

Being a "potential" person is something I'm sick of. In order to truly improve my life, I'm entering 66 days of Monk Mod

I've had enough of living at 20% of my capacity. I know I talk about starting a business and making money, but my lifestyle reflects something different. Every day, I’m wasting my energy on cheap dopamine and distractions.
I'm embarking on a 66-day “Transmutation” sprint, which begins as of tomorrow. All my biological energies will be funneled into my business, as posited in Napoleon Hill's philosophy. Nothing is wasted, no justifications are given.
This phenomenon is referred to as “hustle culture.” But I fear turning forty with merely “potential.” I have to fix a complex tech problem and design a functional solution. In order to make this a reality, I am publishing this. Day 1 has finally started. I reboot when I fail. I am taking back my life.

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