Hazel Green

Hazel Green

@tinybird722114 · Jan 12, 2026

I feel like the way I dress doesn’t affect whether my boyfriend wants me.

I like to take clothes off or dress sexy (lingerie etc) when I’m in the mood. But it seems to have no effect on my boyfriend. Could be giving him the look and be completely naked and he is totally disinterested. I feel like seeing me doesn’t turn him on, and he is only interested when his body tells him to be.
Whatever reason he has for not wanting sex is valid, if he’s tired or just not feeling it, I understand. But it hurts when I feel like I’m not turning him on and I’m being so vulnerable and putting myself out there. He seems to be initiating less and less, wanting me less and less. He loves to cuddle and I do too. But I want to turn him on and I feel incapable of doing that just by existing. He does that all the time to me just by existing. I find him very handsome and attractive. Hence being turned on when I see him naked. He sees me and it’s nothing to him.

Hazel Green

@tinybird722114 · Jan 11, 2026

CMV: there is no such thing as "objectively good" (with regard to art) or at least the phrase comes from a misunderstand

It's a semantic argument but it's something I think is quite interesting.
I've often had this disagreement with people and I've heard the following objection multiple times:
"If everything's subjective, then I guess THE ROOM could be considered a great film!"
It's similar to the idea of an "objective morality."
"If morality is subjective then I guess it could be okay to murder!"
This to me is a misunderstanding of what "objective" means. It seems like these people think it means "definitive" or "incapable of being contradicted."
Instead, "objective" just means it's not an opinion or it doesn't concern human perception. It would remain true even if all human beings died.
Now, there is always ambiguity but with language we have to do our best.
Given that, it really doesn't make any sense at all to say that a movie like THE ROOM is *objectively* bad. Clearly, if all humans died there would be no one around to say it's bad. In this context, "bad" is inherently an *opinion* word, and therefore MUST be subjective.
Even if every single human in the world had the exact same opinion, it would nevertheless be an opinion and therefore subjective. Opinion CAN be definitive, and it isn't imposs

Hazel Green

@tinybird722114 · Jan 10, 2026

I slept with a girl a decade younger than me just to feel powerful, and ruined my life in the process.

I'd say I'm a succesful writer. But that would be giving my ego one last stroke to my ego to close off yesterday's night of consecutive, stronger and louder inflations of my fragile perception of self. Truthfully, I only ever wrote one good book that did pretty well, and earned me enough money to become a high stakes investor.
As a kid, I grew up seeing those in positions of power with a perpetual sneer on my face. To me, this people have always been a whole different human race. The way they breed selectively, the look in their eyes as if they knew they are better than you, and all of the disgusting experiences I had with them when working as a nightclub waiter. It made my stomach coil and roar over the nothingness that followed my humble begginings.
Sooner than I could perceive, I found myself selling and buying businesses and exploiting the very foundings of the system. I found myself earning money out of debt, and then I felt the pride that came with that. I felt my chest pop out when my head wandered to earnings as I heard words like debt, or rent, or salaries; when to my mother and my father, this words meant nothing but dread.
Today, well, yesterday (when you don't sleep a n

Hazel Green

@tinybird722114 · Jan 10, 2026

Reached a long term goal, now I’m there I’m wondering if it’s what I really wanted.

I had been trying to land a specific job in a specific industry for a long time, it was incredibly hard to get the job I wanted and I was convinced it would make me happy.
I felt elated to get the offer, but as my start date inched closer I got gradually less excited, and now I’m at the job I don’t feel motivated or excited much, if not at all. The earning potential is great, the hours will get better etc etc, this isn’t a dead end job, I feel I should be excited now I’m finally where I want to be.
I’ve long been someone motivated by proving to myself that I’m good enough for something and I’m wondering if my motivation to break into this industry was really just to prove to myself that I’m good enough and not that I really wanted the job.
Anyone else dealt with this at all and how did you deal with it?