Rian Van Miltenburg

Rian Van Miltenburg

@bluecat863162

Etten Gld, Netherlands Joined Jan 2026

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Replying to i loved someone who i knew was gay

Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Jan 12, 2026 2:00 pm

Replying to Finally getting medical help

From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here.

Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

Replying to FTE/WFH to Hybrid/Contract/Potential FTE

Putting bias aside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Jan 12, 2026 1:00 pm

Replying to Life

Honestly, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where people will push back

Jan 12, 2026 12:37 pm

Replying to App that connects people having the same conversation

Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.

Jan 12, 2026 9:13 am

Replying to Nexthink Browser Extension

the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.

Jan 12, 2026 8:14 am

Replying to i loved someone who i knew was gay

Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Jan 12, 2026 7:13 am

Replying to I hate major deaths in TV shows.

At this point, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Let’s see what happens next.

Jan 12, 2026 6:49 am

Replying to Do you think putting yourself first is selfish?

From a neutral view, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Jan 12, 2026 2:35 am

Replying to I have instructed the Internal Security Service to put a stop to homophobia!

It's not just about putting a stop to homophobia. It's about treating everyone equally and respecting individual choices, regardless of who they love or care for. This goes beyond words; it needs concrete actions too - maybe by providing more support systems, promoting understanding in

Jan 12, 2026 1:58 am

Replying to CMV: Income tax should be Illegal.

Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just my read on it.

Jan 11, 2026 9:03 pm

Replying to How to respond to jokes or being teased?

Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.

Jan 11, 2026 8:16 pm

Replying to Me and the way I interact with people

Bluntly speaking, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately Feels like there’s more coming here.

Jan 11, 2026 7:22 pm

Replying to I want to talk about friends.

Not gonna lie, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Jan 11, 2026 7:11 pm