Me and the way I interact with people
I actually find it funny and confusing how I feel sad about being lonely and not having anyone to talk to when I feel really bad/really happy
But at the same time I distance myself from people who makes an effort to get close at me and then try to get close at people who distance themselves from me/don't like me much
If anyone feels the same way as well, do you have any idea why? I would like to understand or solve this to be honest
also I like starting relationships (friendships) but I don't maintain it. any reason why? and how can I fix this
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split That’s just how it reads to me.
this feels more about execution than intent
From a neutral view, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me
Reaction: problem solved
Putting bias aside, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
Reaction: Reddits privacy feature is so useless
Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out.
I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to Hard to say where this lands long term.
From a neutral view, this solves one problem while creating another
Reaction: Too real..
At this point, the direction makes sense but the details are messy
On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable Others will probably see it differently.
Reaction: Please do not the gun!
this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split
At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where it gets complicated Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that friction is hard to ignore This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.
Trying to be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated Curious how this plays out.
Reaction: Me_irl
From my side, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.
Reaction: me_irl
At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the way this is presented changes how it lands
Reaction: Take it off us, It burns us!!!
Without overthinking it, the way this is presented changes how it lands so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me.
Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this which explains why reactions are split That’s just my read on it.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Others will probably see it differently.
Reaction: very shocking
To be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where people will push back Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where it gets complicated
Reaction: Me_irl
Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out.
If you zoom out, this reads stronger on paper than in practice This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Reaction: very shocking
Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated Not convinced this is settled yet.
At this point, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Hard to say where this lands long term.
Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting.
Real talk, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately Feels like there’s more coming here.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately Others will probably see it differently.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice At least from my perspective.
the way this is presented changes how it lands which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.
From my side, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where people will push back This could age very differently in a week.
Reaction: lock in chat
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here.
If we’re being honest, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context.
Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
Reaction: Every year it becomes worse
Putting bias aside, the wording alone shifts how people read this Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At first glance, the direction makes sense but the details are messy
From my side, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.
I get the idea, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s the key detail here.
I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a neutral view, this comes across more reactive than planned which is why this is getting picked apart That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: me_irl
At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.