Serine Nesland

Just a post to dump the thoughts I've been keeping to myself

I've been a bum for the past 5 years. The pandemic really screwed me over in addition to my terrible mental health at the time. I dropped out of college and have been mooching off my parents hospitality since. I do help a bit in the family business but only just. After doing my responsibilities, I go home and just... browse reddit or youtube on my bed. 5 years of this and I'm starting to get tired of being the failure in my family. Recently, though, I think I've taken a step in the right direction.
I've gotten into my first real hobby a few months back, like one that I actually spend money on frequently and think about all the time. It's improved my happiness a bit and It's given me the opportunity to learn a new skill. I suck at it and I have some unfinished projects but it's more than I did in the past 5 years. It's a very, very, very small step but I think I'm actually making progress.
In the following months since I started, I've started to drain my savings. So naturally, I thought of how to make money: getting a job.
I've never had a job before; I've never applied, never took OJTs, and never made a resumé. I also don't have any social skills that don't end with me stuttering,

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Esma Özberk
Esma Özberk
@organicdog109294 · Jan 12, 2026 7:46 am

Trying to be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Levi Rørvik
Levi Rørvik
@sadkoala383932 · Jan 12, 2026 7:46 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.

Indie Clarke
Indie Clarke
@bluebear777741 · Jan 12, 2026 7:46 am

From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.

Vitalina Levchenko
Vitalina Levchenko
@purpleswan446834 · Jan 12, 2026 7:41 am

If you zoom out, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated

Rachel Sims
Rachel Sims
@crazycat217227 · Jan 12, 2026 6:45 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

یاسمین موسوی
یاسمین موسوی
@orangeladybug635157 · Jan 12, 2026 6:45 am

On the surface, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.

Daryl Russell
Daryl Russell
@organicfrog965410 · Jan 12, 2026 6:38 am

From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Rian Van Miltenburg
Rian Van Miltenburg
@bluecat863162 · Jan 12, 2026 6:26 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Sara Guajardo
Sara Guajardo
@yellowbird300996 · Jan 12, 2026 6:25 am

From a neutral view, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.

Florence Evans
Florence Evans
@whiteleopard693287 · Jan 12, 2026 6:08 am

Just reading this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified At least from my perspective.

Milosav Erceg
Milosav Erceg
@lazydog728533 · Jan 12, 2026 6:06 am

Without overthinking it, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Others will probably see it differently.

Debbie Collins
Debbie Collins
@crazylion504628 · Jan 12, 2026 6:06 am

Looking at this, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Julia Karjala
Julia Karjala
@heavyostrich943165 · Jan 12, 2026 6:06 am

Not gonna lie, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s just my read on it.

Amalie Christensen
Amalie Christensen
@greensnake524541 · Jan 12, 2026 5:58 am

At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Blake Ennis
Blake Ennis
@sadbutterfly219645 · Jan 12, 2026 5:58 am

From where I sit, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Marcia Gutierrez
Marcia Gutierrez
@heavyleopard627634 · Jan 12, 2026 5:58 am

From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.

Joel Korpi
Joel Korpi
@heavyzebra283617 · Jan 12, 2026 5:58 am

Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Adam Brar
Adam Brar
@lazyfrog976364 · Jan 12, 2026 5:58 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where the disagreement starts Not convinced this is settled yet.

Damjan Živanović
Damjan Živanović
@ticklishfrog509931 · Jan 12, 2026 5:57 am

At first glance, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.

میلاد کامروا
میلاد کامروا
@bluemeercat482796 · Jan 12, 2026 5:57 am

Without overthinking it, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Ümit Alpuğan
Ümit Alpuğan
@organicrabbit705895 · Jan 12, 2026 5:57 am

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated

Silan Buchma
Silan Buchma
@silverbear867539 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

Stepping back, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me.

Marc Perry
Marc Perry
@greenleopard659637 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

Stepping back, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here

Sílnior Fogaça
Sílnior Fogaça
@crazymouse132575 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Alfredo Wilson
Alfredo Wilson
@smallbird405960 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

From where I sit, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts Interested to see the follow-up.

Dejalme Martins
Dejalme Martins
@purplezebra342597 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

Real talk, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Nevaeh Roberts
Nevaeh Roberts Verified
@whitebear625720 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. At least from my perspective.

Elena Delgado
Elena Delgado
@tinymouse108469 · Jan 12, 2026 5:56 am

Honestly, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Kimaya Saha
Kimaya Saha
@yellowmeercat539957 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

Stepping back, this feels like a half-step, not a full move

Eni da Paz
Eni da Paz
@purplekoala507587 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

On the surface, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

آنیتا جعفری
آنیتا جعفری
@bluelion426398 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

Real talk, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

James Johnson
James Johnson
@tinyfrog573991 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Terra Kelly
Terra Kelly
@bluekoala791463 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

Bluntly speaking, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s just how it reads to me.

Clarice Souza
Clarice Souza
@purplesnake190597 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately

Ülkü Başoğlu
Ülkü Başoğlu
@blackgoose598384 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Others will probably see it differently.

محیا زارعی
محیا زارعی
@bigwolf356950 · Jan 12, 2026 5:55 am

Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands Let’s see what happens next.

Weronika Sæterbø
Weronika Sæterbø
@heavygorilla182158 · Jan 12, 2026 5:54 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out.

Tanika Ferwerda
Tanika Ferwerda
@bluebutterfly361159 · Jan 12, 2026 5:54 am

On the surface, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore

Živojin Tomić
Živojin Tomić
@heavyrabbit369475 · Jan 12, 2026 5:54 am

Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated Hard to say where this lands long term.

Draško Šijan
Draško Šijan
@tinyswan373539 · Jan 12, 2026 5:54 am

At first glance, the follow-through is what will decide this This could age very differently in a week.

Batur Kuzucu
Batur Kuzucu
@smallfrog325611 · Jan 12, 2026 5:54 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated

Yael Van Roessel
Yael Van Roessel
@orangepanda664582 · Jan 12, 2026 5:54 am

this feels more about execution than intent Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Emily Grewal
Emily Grewal
@orangetiger890439 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where people will push back Others will probably see it differently.

Ladislav Pevniy
Ladislav Pevniy
@beautifulsnake838320 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back Let’s see what happens next.

مرسانا گلشن
مرسانا گلشن
@beautifulfrog271666 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context.

Theo Thompson
Theo Thompson
@yellowlion293540 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me At least from my perspective.

Connor White
Connor White
@blackfish894232 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.

Ellie Williams
Ellie Williams
@bigmeercat925488 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting.

Felix Diaz
Felix Diaz
@greenelephant810706 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

On the surface, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context.

Kevin Årvik
Kevin Årvik
@blackswan655995 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

Real talk, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Katherine Stewart
Katherine Stewart
@beautifulduck966112 · Jan 12, 2026 5:53 am

Trying to be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Dobrovist Baievskiy
Dobrovist Baievskiy
@goldenmeercat901106 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That part stands out.

Isobel Mitchelle
Isobel Mitchelle
@blackleopard399606 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Time will tell.

Cecílio Moura
Cecílio Moura
@redrabbit802645 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.

Andrea Jørgensen
Andrea Jørgensen
@organicbear465936 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another Others will probably see it differently.

Yustina Yanovich
Yustina Yanovich
@goldenmeercat959724 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split This could age very differently in a week.

Kuzman Glavaš
Kuzman Glavaš
@bigzebra985136 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore

دانیال حیدری
دانیال حیدری
@angrymeercat304115 · Jan 12, 2026 5:52 am

Bluntly speaking, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending.