Every year I add more grief to my calendar and it’s getting heavy
Lately I’ve been noticing my calendar filling up with dates tied to people I’ve lost. Birthdays, the day they passed - ( I can’t imagine widowers on top of that )
Because as time goes on, that list is only going to grow. And I don’t know if that’s healthy or even sustainable. At some point it feels like every week/month is tied to grief, on top of the birthdays and holidays for people who are still here.
Even worse if you come from a large family
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
If you zoom out, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where it gets complicated
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
this depends heavily on what happens next Let’s see what happens next.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split That’s just how it reads to me.
From where I sit, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what makes this interesting.
From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why this is getting picked apart Others will probably see it differently.
Real talk, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just my read on it.
Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s the part people are stuck on Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
this solves one problem while creating another Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this We’ll see how people react over time.
At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s just my read on it.
At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
Without overthinking it, the way this is presented changes how it lands Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split We’ll see how people react over time.
From a neutral view, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just my read on it.
Putting bias aside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like there’s more coming here.
Not gonna lie, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Let’s see what happens next.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through
From my side, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here.
Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just my read on it.
this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split
Trying to be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
Real talk, this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this feels more about execution than intent That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what changes the context.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why this is getting picked apart That’s just my read on it.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.
At first glance, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated Not convinced this is settled yet.
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why the comments look the way they do We’ll see how people react over time.
this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me.
Real talk, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.
To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts Interested to see the follow-up.
From a neutral view, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that tension shows up immediately
Putting bias aside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.