Tina Ćirković

Tina Ćirković

@organicwolf853303 · Jan 10, 2026

Watching OF when you're in a relationship is cheating.

Regular old-fashioned porn is fine, of course.
If I was thinking of getting together with a
guy and I find out he watches someone(s) on OF, that's a no for me. I'll pass. If we are dating already, I genuinely would consider that grounds for a breakup, and yes, even a divorce if we're married. I'm outta here.
Why? There's an emotional connection. You could have seen every skin cell on a regular pornstar's snatch, and wouldn't know what her favourite color is, wouldn't even know if her eyes are hazel or green. You don't follow her on Twitter. You don't even know her real name.
But the gamer girl whose OF you're subscribed to? That's different. You know what her laugh sounds like. You think she's cool for reading the entire X-Men comics. You know she likes some random European candy no one's ever heard of. You think she's cultured for knowing Spanish. You think of her when you see them. You randomly think of something she said during a livestream and you smile to yourself. You like her. There's some emotional connection there. You follow her across all socials, fantasise about doing cute girlfriend things with her. It's different.
I think it's cheating, emotionally, like.

Tina Ćirković

@organicwolf853303 · Jan 10, 2026

Is it bad for liking cute things as a man?

I am a software engineer and my jobs demands everything digitally. But I like analogue tools like pens, books, notebooks etc. I love writing with pen on physical paper and reading physical books. I just love them.
I have made a pocket notebook cover and draw a cute little bookshelf on it. That notebook was for writing summary and insights about the book I read. I sent a picture of that cover to my best friend and he said "Wow this is beautiful sister. When you are gonna start taking orders?"
Now don't get him wrong because we say a lot of sh\*t to each other 💀 and he is the guy that has saved my ass many times.
But I have seen this kind of response from many people on the internet also. What are your thoughts about this? I am curious. Btw if you are interested here's the link to the artwork I made [https://share.cleanshot.com/sfvQxslJ](https://share.cleanshot.com/sfvQxslJ)