Tristan Lam

Tristan Lam

@orangeswan292917

aus Clinton, liebt Tech-News am Morgen, Live-Musik in der Stadt, immer bereit für neue Kontakte.

Clinton, Canada Joined Jan 2026

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 10, 2026

"I will show you true power" my life in NOT a nutshell.

Honestly i don't know why i talk about this here. But saw some great themes and....why not?
Its a 20+ years story so ITS GONNA BE LONG.
I am 26 year and those 22 years of my life i wanna talk about.
I started this writing around 3.5 hours ago xd ALSO THERE ARE INSTANCES where i used the word "violated" but i was stupid so take those as not rape but physical damage causing
My father is not a rapist but was a fuck up.
Its about how my life went "kratos vs zeus" with my father and me. The only difference that i did not killed him.
Where to begin? Don't know so i just blast everything here, trying to make it correct in timelapses to be followable.
My father was a cruel man. Don't think i need to explain further if i mention Alcoholism? So he beat every family member since i know myself. (even before me was born and that was atleast 30years ago)
One of my core memory where he beat the shit out of my mother on the ground while my 2 big brother and older sister were in the other room, terrified i guess?
Don't know why i was looking at that scene, my mother said i cried like hell, still i didn't looked away.
Somehow like this, imagine my little ME years. I was afraid my father, ofc i didn'

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 10, 2026

What gets one clocked as shy or possibly neurodivergent?

Usually when socializing I tried to be friendly and outgoing. A lot of people would say “oh you seem shy”.
I’m confused as to why. At times I don’t know what to say or talk to people about tho.
How do I prevent this?

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 10, 2026

No backbone with my ex leads to my constant humiliation

I’m not really sure why this was his end goal to be honest. We broke up on his terms, I didn’t want to get back together after stewing about the breakup for months. I did love him but I felt like I couldn’t commit the same way. Not because I didn’t want to but because I was terrified he’d up and leave me again. I didn’t want the up and downs. And I certainly did not want an on and off again relationship. What did I get instead? A situationship! and I was in misery. I didn’t have the backbone to say no to him, in fact I could never deny him which looking back was so sad and pathetic. I was young and stupid. It was my first relationship, I had missed all the highschool milestones, which also meant all the heartbreak and growth.
Looking back on some of the conversations we’d have post coitus when we were still actively together, I really should’ve run for the hills. “Don’t worry I’m not using you, you’d definitely know if I was” as I’d sit on his bed smiling like an idiot thinking “oh he’ll never use me! Surely not lil ol’ me?!” So when all of a sudden he’s sending me straight home afterwards with not so much as a hug or a kiss goodbye I started to realize what was happening. Once the

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 10, 2026

New here looking for conversations

Hey everyone! I just joined here today and I’m still figuring out how everything works.
I’m looking to have some chill conversations and make some new friends along the way.

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 10, 2026
Kassem Farhat
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@kassem · Jan 10, 2026 10:00 am

Daily office in Global Virtual trust gets hard. Stupid administration there.

~Kassem Farhat
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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 10, 2026

Just met the most beautiful woman in the Men’s restroom.

I feel kinda embarrassed, this happened at work. I’m not sure how long she was in there for but I was inside the bathroom stall, I was farting loud. When I got out, there she was, standing there, looking at herself in the mirror while she’s fixing her hair. I knew for fact I was in the right restroom but I tried to play it off like I didn’t know. I said “oops am I in the wrong restroom?” And she seemed rather calm to my surprise and she said “am I in the wrong restroom?” She turned around and looked at the urinals, she nervously laughed and said “sorry!” As she made a quick exit.
I found out she’s a seasonal worker and her last day will be tomorrow. So I guess I’ll get over the embarrassment and awkwardness of that moment. I’ll probably never see her ever again

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026

Is microwaving milk for hot chocolate as egregious as microwaving water for tea?

We've all seen the ragebait - some American on Instagram microwaving a mug of tea and then using a lipton's tea bag to produce an abomination that is almost exactly, but not quite, unlike tea.
I've tried making hot chocolate with a milk pan on the hob, but I find that it's quicker, easier, and less likely scald a pan if I put a mug of milk in the microwave before stirring in the cocoa-ey goodness.
Am I a heathen?

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
Patricio Zarate
Patricio Zarate
@happyswan746167 · Jan 9, 2026 6:02 pm

Welcome to ClubHub

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
Scott Rekdal
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@angryswan635987 · Jan 9, 2026 7:57 pm

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
Reinhard Hermann
Reinhard Hermann
@happygoose739748 · Jan 9, 2026 7:18 pm

Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult?

I’ve realized meeting new people in your 20s is way harder than school. Everyone has routines. How do people even find new friends that actually click?

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026

The USA shits on the graves of their greatest generation

Their greatest generation, who sacrificed their youth, health and their lifes freed most of the world from fashism. They are celebrated heros in your community, idols and a symbol of integrity and doing whats right.
Sadly you become the very thing they swore to destroy, you become a fashist regime!
You threaten your neighbors and even allies with military and economic force.
Just like the Nazis did, with Austria, Czechoslovakia, Netherlands, Belgium, France, Norway...
You have an law enforcement agency that specifically targets minorities and vulnerable people. They can terrorise and even kill your own people with impunity.
Just like the Gestapo did.
You have camps where you deport minorities to or they simply vanish.
Just like the KZ system in Nazi Germany or the Gulags in the Soviet Union.
Your elite enriches itself publicly, is corrupt to no end and shits on its peoples lives and needs.
Just like Russia does.
You loose your healthcare, retirement, security, education, etc. to keep you busy so you cant riot.
Just like every dictatorship ever.
The greatest generation even became a big part of your own identity, the way you see yourself, your culture and your country.
And now you shit on your grandpa's and grandma's graves, your heroes, after all they did and sacrificed for you...

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026

How to start accepting your Appearance?

I really need your advice on how to deal with this problem. I don't consider myself ugly, the opposite people pays attention to me, compliments me, but I'm just embarrassed by my appearance. Because of this, I can't take the first steps myself, because I think it would be ridiculous. When I start thinking that I'm beautiful, I immediately think that my face shape is not beautiful enough, not the kind of figure that I would like, and in principle I don't like the way I look now. People who have had such a problem or those who are also facing it now, tell us how you struggle / struggled with this problem.

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Tristan Lam
@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026

Advocating for Cobra Kai: Join Me in Supporting an Extended Version of Season 6!

Hi everyone!
As a dedicated fan of *Cobra Kai,* I felt compelled to share my thoughts on Season 6. While I loved the series overall, I think many of us can agree that the last season felt rushed and left some character arcs unresolved. Personally, I was hoping for more character development and closure.
To address this, I’ve started a petition urging the creators to consider releasing an extended version that includes more scenes and depth.
If you feel similarly and want to support this cause, please consider signing the petition here: https://www.change.org/p/release-a-revised-extended-version-of-the-entire-season-of-cobra-kai-season-6.
**I’d love to hear from you**:
* What did you think about Season 6?
* Are there specific improvements you wish to see?
Thanks for taking the time to read, and I appreciate any support you can provide!

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
Scott Rekdal
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@angryswan635987 · Jan 9, 2026 5:07 pm

The best 98-inch TVs of 2026: Cinema-sized and expert tested

Help create a movie-goer's experience at home with a 98-inch TV. We've tested the latest and best from brands like Hisense, TCL, and Sony.

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
Marie Andersen
Marie Andersen
@redfrog925761 · Jan 9, 2026 4:52 pm

The Pitt Season 2’s Rotten Tomatoes Score Rises After Its Premiere

The Pitt season 2 already had a great Rotten Tomatoes score, but now after its premiere has aired, it's even higher than it was.

www.forbes.com
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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
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@kassem · Jan 9, 2026 5:08 pm

WE ARE WINNING

WE WILL WINN!

~Kassem Farhat
Member of GLOBAL VIRTUAL TRUST

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
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@kassem · Jan 9, 2026 6:00 pm

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Right now, I will officially running for the next president of Global Virtual Trust!!!

~Kassem Farhat
Member of GLOBAL VIRTUAL TRUST

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@orangeswan292917 · Jan 9, 2026
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@ClubHub · Jan 7, 2026 7:31 pm

Welcome to ClubHub

Introduce yourself and start conversations with your community.

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