CMV: Delegation is a way of pushing off work bosses don’t want to do to someone else.
I’ve had this feeling for a while (I’m a middle manager at a large retail chain store) and anytime any of us are giving tasks that complete, we come back to our boss sitting in his office playing on his phone.
Even when I’m in the middle of things that need to get done, I’m often met with “this takes priority” or “pull someone else so they can take care of this.”
We’ve talked to him about it and his response is “you don’t know how to delegate tasks properly, it’s not so much that YOU do it, but that it get’s done” which is fine, but when we are running around trying to get things sewed up, I think it’s kind of pointless to hand us something else that he then, in turn, wants us to hand down to someone else.
I’ve stopped seeing delegation as a way to get more things done and just see it as “I don’t want to do this, so I’ll hand this off to someone else under me.”
So I guess I’ll throw it on here for you guys to try and change my view. I can’t sit there and listen to another one of his “you need to delegate better to accomplish more” talk or else I may actually lose it.
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I will never accept my ugly appearance
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Why should we help others more?
When we fall in love with someone or genuinely care for someone from the heart, three hormones—oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine—are released together in our brain.
As a result, a unique and pleasant feeling arises within us. We feel happy and joyful without any specific reason. Because dopamine is involved, our brain keeps craving that feeling again and again.
Interestingly, the same three hormones are also released together when we help someone selflessly or express gratitude sincerely.
So, if you want to live a good and happy life, try to help others selflessly or express gratitude as often as possible. Instead of getting involved in forbidden relationships, shouldn’t we focus more on helping others?
And if you want proof, try helping a helpless person selflessly today and then notice how you feel inside.
Helping others or showing gratitude does not always require money. Speaking kindly to people with a warm smile is also a form of expressing gratitude. Imagine you are walking down a road and notice some garbage lying in the middle, making it difficult for others to pass, but no one is cleaning it or removing it. If you take the initiative to remove it, through that simple act y
Why is Dead by Daylight so popular and how do I get good at it?
Some of my friends really enjoy the game and I hate it and think it's stupid and I never enjoy playing it but they do and they're freaking addicted to it and I want to get better at it so I can play with them so where do I start? Can I be free to play in it? I'm on PS5 if that is a factor.
I abused my cat while she was in heat
I want to warn everyone this is unhinged and I’m not making excuses I’m simply explaining my story because It’s like I don’t know who I am and it scares me. I’ve always had intense anger issues since I was a kid like around 5-10 or fighting other kids I would break countless tablets phones fight siblings like full on brawls over the littlest things and I would act up a lot etc. around 10-13 I was getting more angry but instead of hitting siblings I took it out on walls or objects and I would put holes in the walls or just break controllers, tvs, speakers, or just chuck things no matter the expense. At 13 l was smoking weed everyday and at 14 l picked up nicotine and started drinking way more often this could've contributed to my anger but it's never an excuses but my anger peaked at 14 I didn’t care who I was around or if I was in school when I was mad as shit I would be so careless i would start hitting and kicking everything when I was impatient or overwhelmed in front of people at school and I didn’t care who was watching in the moment . This cat was my sisters cat and she was 4 at the time and I have 3 more that l've never hit or abused in anyway. I was used to my cat being in
[1241] Cut It Out
My brain has been packed. I’ll be lucky to put a paragraph together for what feels like a dozen different subjects. My head no less compiling and looking for the patterns.
They killed an average, normal, sparkling white woman. Just now. Just NOW people are arriving at, “It could be me!” Not people who pay attention. Not people who read history. The people who can’t be bothered or can’t handle what it takes to be enmeshed in the political landscape. And who can blame them? It’s one impossible, unprecedented, and seemingly intractable problem after the next every single day. They’ve already killed innocent Americans. They’ve been Nazis all along.
We fought world wars over this shit. It wasn’t that long ago. My grandpa killed Nazis. We established a world order to try and avoid ending up like 100 million people who had to die because hatred and a desire for power ran amok. I’ve been asking for years, how bad does it need to get? How many people have to die for the worst reasons imaginable before we’re back at some iteration of a world war footing? How many lies are we not going to call lies? How often are we gonna play the “both sides” game? How many criminals are we going to pardon a
I abused my cat while she was in heat
I want to warn everyone this is unhinged and I’m not making excuses I’m simply explaining my story because It’s like I don’t know who I am and it scares me. I’ve always had intense anger issues since I was a kid like around 5-10 or fighting other kids I would break countless tablets phones fight siblings like full on brawls over the littlest things and I would act up a lot etc. around 10-13 I was getting more angry but instead of hitting siblings I took it out on walls or objects and I would put holes in the walls or just break controllers, tvs, speakers, or just chuck things no matter the expense. At 13 l was smoking weed everyday and at 14 l picked up nicotine and started drinking way more often this could've contributed to my anger but it's never an excuses but my anger peaked at 14 I didn’t care who I was around or if I was in school when I was mad as shit I would be so careless i would start hitting and kicking everything when I was impatient or overwhelmed in front of people at school and I didn’t care who was watching in the moment . This cat was my sisters cat and she was 4 at the time and I have 3 more that l've never hit or abused in anyway. I was used to my cat being in
Advice?
So, my sibling has recently gotten into weight loss with the mindset of "if I only eat these two veggies, I'll lose weight quickly". I didn't like this as I knew where it was going, as I am currently in this state, barely eating/only eating strictly healthy, worrying about how I look, the works. I haven't even had chocolate in months due to my issues.
I didn't want them to turn out how I did, so at dinner, I gave them a stern, very stern, talking to about the importance of variety and nutrients in a diet. I say sternly because we are both stubborn motherfuckers and knew that I couldn't exactly be quiet and silent about it.
I digress, but I gave them articles about how one is to lose weight, how weight affects a period (much to our masculine dispair), and how eating the way they are could lead to other health problems. To combat this, after an education with what knowledge I had grabbed and stored, I had them set up a plan. I made them write down the foods they like and how they like them prepared. I then grabbed like six cookbooks and as I write this, they are currently going through them, making them pick out recipes they want to try and know they want to eat. With this list, ever
Tell me about yout passions?
Hey there! I am a 29m, super tech savvy, dream about traveling more, enjoy architectural structures along with the history behind them, and spreading good vibes all around.
I am just looking for some casual conversation as I keep busy in life, but I enjoy meeting new people and hearing about you, your dreams, hobbies etc
Any gender really as I just enjoy making new friends 🤓
Hope to talk to you soon!
Well...
So I had my work meeting I mentioned a few times and it went ok...they gave me my final warning and it's whatever 🙄 but I think the thing that hurt the most was all the talking behind my back about me being trans...they bullied me so much I went back to boy mode there anyways and thank God I did...the lies that came out and just the stuff they said was eye opening and very hurtful. I dunno if u ever meet a trans person be nice I guess...I dunno I feel kinda hollow but like I've said I need this job so it's pick ur battles 😭 anyway I'm ok for now if anyone was following along and wondering...still not convinced I'm out of the woods cause my boss leaves March and I still feel they could walk me out with her but I'll be saving and wary until then. Love ya guys. Have a good weekend 😬
Edit- ugh I'm actually really sad about the bullying part like I know it happens but I really really hate me in boy mode and yeah I've been back in it for awhile at work it hurts and it's scary knowing how much people didn't like me when I finally felt happy and like me...I don't even feel safe going to hr and I don't have friends or access to party drugs....I guess there's edibles and bed rot. Fuuuuuuuck my life.
I Don't Like How Going Out Costs Me Money
Whenever I go out, the temptation and need to spend money is there. Whop! You're driving around. Gonna have to fuel up the car after 7 days of driving around. Feeling a bit hungry? Maybe you can spend a bit of cash today to have yourself a nice lunch.
If I stay at home, the temptation to spend my money is greatly reduced. Literally everything I own is nearby, I can cook pretty damn well for myself, streams and games are always a joy for me and I don't need to buy anymore games, I despise and avoid gacha games like the plague, plus my single subcription for literally every single show on the internet is dirt cheap ($3/month). I just need to take care of my house and ensure that everything functions well.
But I hate staying home. I want to go out and do stuff while avoiding the temptation of buying stuff. I don't always want to play video games and watch streams and become a couch potato, while compromising the total health of my body. I want to go out to the gym and pump iron, but I don't want to start spending $25+/week on gasoline. X_X Guhhhhhh... why must I be bounded by money...
Why do mosquitoes bite my hands but not my face when I’m sleeping?
Hi everyone,
I've noticed something strange and I'm curious about the reason.
There are mosquitoes in my room at night. When I sleep, I cover my whole body with a bedsheet, but my hands are outside. The mosquitoes always bite my hands, but they never bite my face, even though my face is also uncovered.
Why do mosquitoes prefer biting hands instead of the face? Is it because of skin, smell, movement, or something else?
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