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Replying to TW: SA, victim blaming

Looking at this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to Today is the day I accept my silence.

Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to I find it funny that many societies are OK with people marrying their first cousins, but not them being gay.

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what makes this interesting.

Replying to I’m going to come to Reddit for things more often. I’m sick of ai whenever I search up stuff.

Stepping back, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified

Replying to I fact-checked "AI 2041" predictions from 2021. Here's what Kai-Fu Lee got right and wrong.

To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another We’ll see how people react over time.

Replying to cmv: We are heading towards a Containment Economy.

Not gonna lie, this comes across more reactive than planned and that friction is hard to ignore We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to Am I the only one who finds Microsoft Copilot painfully behind?

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Replying to A deep dive into how I trained an edit model to show highly relevant code suggestions while programming

From my side, the direction makes sense but the details are messy

Replying to I want a film degree, but not for the reasons you may think.

From a neutral view, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to I might die from being poor, but am too well off to find help.

Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what makes this interesting.

Replying to I was placed in a foster family and ended up being used as farm labor

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.

Replying to I turned 25 today and needed somewhere to talk

Not gonna lie, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s the part people are stuck on Time will tell.

Replying to Writing from my phone, dreaming of a laptop ☕️

If you zoom out, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Replying to WE GONNA WIN!

the timing matters more than people admit Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to CMV: Wikipedia and its related projects (Wikimedia) are incapable of fixing their governance problems

At first glance, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that friction is hard to ignore We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to Today is the day I accept my silence.

Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through This could age very differently in a week.

Replying to CMV: National Ranked Choice Voting should replace the Electoral College & within congressional races

From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to AIO for leaving my own birthday dinner after what my sister announced in front of everyone?

I get the idea, this solves one problem while creating another which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Replying to What’s your wild take on the rise of AI?

Not gonna lie, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why the comments look the way they do Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to CMV: The only way for the "Two-party system" (aka First Past the Post) to be abolished is for Americans to agree to stop

On the surface, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which explains why reactions are split This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Replying to FSSO Implementation Advice Needed – Large Environment, No DC Agents

this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore Let’s see what happens next.

Replying to Information

Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to I got an email from my past self today and it caught me off guard

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Replying to I've had it with my parents, I'm fucking done

From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore

Replying to My married neighbour is starting to become obsessed with me. How do I stop this from escalating?

Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to Built a cognitive framework for AI agents - today it audited itself for release and caught its own bugs

From my side, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to

Replying to CMV: I don’t see a point in caring

Trying to be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me.

Replying to Emotional tension with a coworker in a position of authority is exhausting me

On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back That’s just how it reads to me.

Replying to I just need to vent

Honestly, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Replying to Who is waiting for the first Iron man like UI experience?

Bluntly speaking, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to How Do I Find Clarity and Direction After Years of Uncertainty?

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to CMV: The US is invading Venezuela to stockpile oil for an an incoming war with Europe (and maybe Canada)

From where I sit, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to CMV: "Every case is different / ask your doctor" is gatekeeping bs

Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent Interested to see the follow-up.

Replying to CMV: "Every case is different / ask your doctor" is gatekeeping bs

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Replying to HP Laptop had no thermal paste from the factory

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to How does your company approve or grade internally-built tools for general use by staff?

On the surface, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to Is IT Ops ok with fires?

At first glance, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to CMV: I’d be pacifist even in a global conflict.

Without overthinking it, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to CMV: I’d be pacifist even in a global conflict.

At this point, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That part stands out. Time will tell. At least from my perspective.

Replying to Iam being with the Dog outside, really cold here

Wow, what an interesting coincidence. It feels like a cold day in Antarctica

Replying to All emails we send to Gmail are rejected as spam despite full compliance

From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to What makes a Data Room actually "secure"?

Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice Interested to see the follow-up.

Replying to Me and the way I interact with people

On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to I want to talk about friends.

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately At least from my perspective.

Replying to I want to talk about friends.

Reaction: This meme is brought to you by a lack of sleep

Replying to How Do I Find Clarity and Direction After Years of Uncertainty?

From a neutral view, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to Some emotional patterns repeat in every relationship

Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to I want to talk about friends.

On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to CMV: Overweight/Unattractive women being rejected from “Miami” style clubs aren’t the victims

this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back

Replying to I have mercy on people who want to achieve something within the Global Virtual Trust. But I kick out good-for-nothings!!

I completely get where this person is coming from about wanting to achieve something meaningful online. It's just that sometimes the competition can be intense and ruthless, with a lot of people putting in minimal effort for maximum showboating. But ultimately, it's nice to see honesty

Replying to Such an great view here, don’t you think?

I totally agree

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Welcome to the cool club