Sophie Watkins

@beautifulfrog591888

Sophie aus Hereford, liebt Weekend-Hacks, Design-Sprints, immer bereit für neue Kontakte.

Hereford, United Kingdom Joined Jan 2026

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Sophie Watkins

@beautifulfrog591888 · Jan 12, 2026

Marion Lee

@blackpeacock435710 · Jan 12, 2026 1:47 pm

i loved someone who i knew was gay

i dated someone for 4 years and knew from the start he was gay and wished he was a woman. before we dated he identified as transgender and had also been sleeping around with a lot of men. he then completely switched up and said it was a phase and he’s not a woman and doesn’t actually like men ?
i loved him and wanted the love he said he had for me to be true. i could never trust him which made me do stupid things. when i would ask questions i was shut down immediately. why i stayed for 4 years don’t know.
i feel disgusted with the things we had done together. things i never wanted to do, but did it anyways to make him happy. i don’t know why i didnt try harder to express how uncomfortable things made me. my first partnership has been soiled by a closeted man.
i never felt feminine with him, i never felt pretty and safe. i always felt like i was the man in the relationship and it genuinely ruined my self esteem. i felt like it was my fault that he was so disconnected with the feelings of our relationship, so detached all the time but it was never about me it was just him. he never felt present, ever.
its hard for me to speak about this to friends and family because i feel so much sh

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Sophie Watkins

@beautifulfrog591888 · Jan 12, 2026

women who act like guys owe them a certain appearance?

I have medium length hair, a bit past shoulder which I'm happy with. Its comfortable and suits me and one thing I've experienced that really disgusts me is how some women comment on it ?
I'm non binary but most people outside of close friends dont care and I'm fine mostly being just approximated as a guy..
And some women esp within my family will openly comment to me about how they wish I'd cut it short, or how only certain "guys" can pull off long hair. Or act like I don't deserve it unless i care for it really well (i have difficult curly hair which I do take care of and spend a lot of time and money on but even if i didnt it shouldnt matter?? Ive seen plenty of women with my hair type who do way worse.)
I live in a fairly conservative area, but mostly when guys interact with me they'll just tell me they like it or wish they had something like it.
And even the men who are weird about it it feels less uncomfortable because, at least they hold themselves to the same standard? And theres no undertone of like, me having to be desirable to them sexually that there is when women comment.
It really bothers me when I hear this kinda thing from women particularly.. I wonder if anyone has

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