Anja Bajević

@silverelephant198124

I've been off sick from work since the end of October. I don't know when I'm going to be back. I am a person who is usually very busy - I have a varied mid-leve

Novi Sad, Serbia Joined Jan 2026

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Anja Bajević

@silverelephant198124 · Jan 12, 2026

Every year I add more grief to my calendar and it’s getting heavy

Lately I’ve been noticing my calendar filling up with dates tied to people I’ve lost. Birthdays, the day they passed - ( I can’t imagine widowers on top of that )
Because as time goes on, that list is only going to grow. And I don’t know if that’s healthy or even sustainable. At some point it feels like every week/month is tied to grief, on top of the birthdays and holidays for people who are still here.
Even worse if you come from a large family

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@silverelephant198124 · Jan 12, 2026

Line Gulli

@smallmouse467954 · Jan 12, 2026 12:37 am

My mother is the backbone of my family while im nothing but a burden

Idk if it matters or is relevant, but my family is Asian with my parents being the first of their family to move and start a life outside their home country. They have worked extremely hard to be able to provide for me, my siblings, and their own families. They send money back home whenever they can and are even helping to support my dads side of the family who live here but aren't doing as well as us. Both my parents work every day to sustain my comfortable lifestyle, my mom especially.
Getting up at 4-5am for work, coming back home around 2pm, cooking for the house (8 people rn, parents, me, 2 siblings, grandma, cousin, uncle) and then going to work again from 7 to 10. Even if the second job is with my dad, cousin and uncle, My mom never has a chance to take a break, and I have no way to help her.
The plan for me originally was that I would go to college and work after finishing my program. Last semester I had failed one of my classes and failed basically all of my finals which has now put me on academic probation. I'm not going to continue the program because I'm not interested in it (wasn't originally) and it seems like more money would be wasted if I did continue. My mom doesn

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Anja Bajević

@silverelephant198124 · Jan 11, 2026

Google Workspace SPF/DKIM alignment fails for alias domain (Cloudflare DNS)

I'm using Cloudflare for DNS on two domains in one Google Workspace account. [Domain2.com.au](http://Domain2.com.au) added as alias domain.
For example1.com: DMARC/SPF/DKIM all pass fine.
For example2.com.au: DMARC/SPF/DKIM Fails.
To make it work I'm using "v=DMARC1; p=none; ....
I have SPF example2.com.au: "v=spf1 ip4:\[myhostip\] include:\_spf.google.com include:spf.hostingplatform.net.au \~all"
I add the 2nd account in "Send as" address in Gmail.
Issue: Emails sent "From: example2.com.au" via Gmail login for example1.com show Envelope From as example1.com.
Expected SPF to pass since both use Google Workspace servers, but alignment fails
But all DMARC/SPF/DKIM Fails
Can this be fixed While using Gmail for send as? does it make a difference if I add the second domain as a secondary domain rather than an alias for the primary domain? if I need to do this and I need to delete the existing domain will I lose anything

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@silverelephant198124 · Jan 10, 2026

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