Heimo Göller

@bluecat397191

Heimo aus Eschenbach in der Oberpfalz, liebt lokale Cafés entdecken, Sneaker-Talk, immer bereit für neue Kontakte.

Eschenbach in der Oberpfalz, Germany Joined Jan 2026

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Heimo Göller

@bluecat397191 · Jan 11, 2026

Exclaimer on Spamhaus List

Anyone else seeing NDRs due to Exclaimer IP on Spamhaus?

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@bluecat397191 · Jan 11, 2026

Siiri Palo

@angryelephant385921 · Jan 11, 2026 4:45 pm

I want to talk about friends.

I feel like I don’t need or really want friends. I feel immense pressure to make friends and have a social life but honestly when it comes down to it, I don’t really care. I don’t have a lot in common with people, I have nothing to say to them, talking feels exhausting and performative. The only times I feel like having friends is around Christmas time, new years, or when there’s an event or place I want to check out but I can’t do it alone. In these cases it’s more that I like the idea of having someone to do these things with more than having actual friends. This holiday season was very lonely but at the same time it feels like I only felt lonely because it’s seen as pathetic to spend the holidays at home doing the same things that you do every other day of the year.
A bit of context, I’m mid thirties, single, I was lucky to have some really good friends over the years, but due to circumstances we’re scattered all over the world. I’ve moved to a new city about 6 months ago. I haven’t made any friends yet. I tried, but only half-heartedly if I’m honest with myself. I rarely talk with my roommates. the idea of starting over building relationships bores me. I met these wonderful peo

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Heimo Göller

@bluecat397191 · Jan 10, 2026

The One Thing You’re Misreading About How People Care

One person goes quiet for a week and feels nothing has changed. The other notices the silence immediately and wonders if something is wrong. Both are confused. Both feel misunderstood.
What often leads one style to be dismissed as wrong or unnecessary is how care is interpreted.
The issue isn’t who cares more or less, but what is recognized as care, and which actions are treated as proof of it.
People often assume commitment and closeness are measured and understood the same way by everyone involved. They aren’t. Some people rely on explicit signals to confirm alignment, while others treat commitment as an internal decision that doesn’t fluctuate with interaction or circumstance.
So what makes people differ in style in the first place? The pattern is actually simple once you see what it’s anchored to.
Some people have what could be called **persistent presence rather than continuous presence**. Their system is internal by default. They decide independently, and that decision rarely changes because of moments, feedback, or cues. The fact that they stay oriented toward someone is, to them, already the sign that the person matters. Unless they revise that decision, circumstances don’t

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Heimo Göller

@bluecat397191 · Jan 10, 2026

ClubHub Team

@ClubHub · Jan 7, 2026 7:31 pm

Welcome to ClubHub

Introduce yourself and start conversations with your community.

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@bluecat397191 · Jan 10, 2026

Global Virtual Trust

@gvt · Jan 9, 2026 6:05 pm

Information from the Prime Minister Office

Kassem Farhat has now officially accepted the nomination for the presidency of the Global Virtual Trust! The elections will take place soon.
(@kassem)

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@bluecat397191 · Jan 10, 2026

Kassem Farhat

@kassem · Jan 9, 2026 6:00 pm

Information

Right now, I will officially running for the next president of Global Virtual Trust!!!

~Kassem Farhat
Member of GLOBAL VIRTUAL TRUST

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