I have to walk on eggshells or my husband shuts down emotionally (it’s breaking me)
**I’m not looking for advice. I just need to get this off my chest.**
Me (M29) and my husband (M28) have been married for 5 years. We got married after 1 year of dating and immediately moved to Europe because of a work opportunity I received.
Since then we had some disagreements (I counted probably 8 or 9 big ones in the last 5 years). More than half of them have always the same reason: finances and job topics.
The finances-related ones were more common in the past, like 4 years ago when we moved to a new apartment and completely drained our savings. I tried to talk about it, not to blame him as he's super unexpensive, but to share my worries. However he would always feel offended and start some kind of discussion about how I'm a cheapskate like my family.
To avoid conflict, I stopped talking about money altogether. If we are broke I suffer with this by myself. If we are in a good moment about money, I'll mention to him and we'll be happy together. Luckily, my situation improved after I changed jobs, so money is less stressful now.
The discussions about jobs are still a thing...
Since we moved together, I've always been employed. My husband tried running his own business during our
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