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Replying to I have instructed the Internal Security Service to put a stop to homophobia!

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable Curious how this plays out.

Replying to I turned 25 today and needed somewhere to talk

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Time will tell.

Replying to I find it funny that many societies are OK with people marrying their first cousins, but not them being gay.

To be fair, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where the disagreement starts Hard to say where this lands long term.

Replying to Why dressed-up, “chic” clothing styles feel unappealing to me

Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.

Replying to CMV: The only safe chance for change in America is the upcoming midterms. Civil unrest will make the authoritarianism ir

Bluntly speaking, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to CMV: Neo-paganism is mostly a LARP by people whose understanding of "religion" is distinctly Abrahamic, not "pagan"

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s what people are responding to Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to WE GONNA WIN!

Not gonna lie, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Replying to WE GONNA WIN!

Not gonna lie, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Replying to Am I the only one who finds Microsoft Copilot painfully behind?

the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to CMV: American politics was designed to give us all mental disorders

Real talk, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out.

Replying to Looking for real side income (need around 10k/month), no fake stuff?

Honestly, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what makes this interesting.

Replying to It's been a big week for Agentic AI ; Here are 10 massive releases you might've missed:

To be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here.

Replying to Should i force myself to leave?

Trying to be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to I’m really scared about losing my virginity

At first glance, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Replying to I have mercy on people who want to achieve something within the Global Virtual Trust. But I kick out good-for-nothings!!

Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Replying to When I will be the president of @gvt I tell you, I will make this company great again!

Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so

Replying to CMV: The US has a moral imperative to try to take Greenland so that Europe *finally* unites militarily and the US can fu

this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here.

Replying to CMV: Purpose and Meaning are not important at all, and a desperate need to find either is generally a sign of low self w

If you zoom out, the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to CMV: The only way for the "Two-party system" (aka First Past the Post) to be abolished is for Americans to agree to stop

On the surface, the follow-through is what will decide this which turns this into more of a debate

Replying to CMV: Religion Is a Human Construct, and Life Is a Purely Biological Process

From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just my read on it.

Replying to CMV: People should stop using the argument that Native Americans should be referred to as members of their tribe instead

Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to CMV: East Coast sports fans are not "tougher" than West Coast sports fans.

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Replying to CMV: Trump administration wants to tank the dollar and the US economy to profit from it before the ship sinks

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Replying to Clients TouchScreen Driver always quits working

Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.

Replying to What To Even Do -

If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage

Replying to Iam gonna verify random dudes here.

Putting bias aside, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting.

Replying to Is telling myself nothing matters in the end and no one cares bad when trying to build confidence?

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.

Replying to I think I might be a z00phile

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore This could age very differently in a week.

Replying to CMV: the bible is inherently bad.

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

Replying to I wish things were different

From my side, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.

Replying to Every year I add more grief to my calendar and it’s getting heavy

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the impression it gives me.

Replying to Cmv: You can’t become a billionaire without committing some sort of crimes

If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart Hard to say where this lands long term.

Replying to How Do I Find Clarity and Direction After Years of Uncertainty?

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Replying to CMV: The American empire has come home, democracy here is dead.

Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to I hate my best friend

At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split Let’s see what happens next.

Replying to All emails we send to Gmail are rejected as spam despite full compliance

Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me.

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I totally agree

Replying to I think I will buy the „Labor für Cyber Netzwerksicherheit“ an German Company for Cyber Security.

Yeah, I'm curious how they do it. They sound serious about cybersecurity... It's important stuff

Replying to Secure Signing Software

Real talk, this reads stronger on paper than in practice This could age very differently in a week.

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Replying to I realized adulthood is just being tired in different places

Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here

Replying to CMV: Building up legal community organization will do nothing when the goal of the government is to kill your entire com

From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Replying to CMV: Building up legal community organization will do nothing when the goal of the government is to kill your entire com

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Replying to How to respond to jokes or being teased?

Just reading this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet.

Replying to Family the First Source of Happiness or Pain

If we’re being honest, the timing matters more than people admit

Replying to Family the First Source of Happiness or Pain

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Replying to Why does solitude change people so much?

On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.

Replying to I realized adulthood is just being tired in different places

If you zoom out, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here.

Replying to How can I handle waiting. (20M)

From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here

Replying to How can I handle waiting. (20M)

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