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@smallpanda323922 · Jan 12, 2026

My (26M) girlfriend (26F) of 8 years cheated with a married woman, rewrote our relationship as abusive, and now blames m

Im a 26M and my girlfriend 26F of 8 years cheated on me for about four months with a married women who has two children and is about 8 years older than her. I discovered the affair myself.
Whats been hardest to process is that during those same months, my girlfriend and i were actively planning our future together. At the same she was doing this with the married women.
After discoving the affair, I found messages between my ex and this married women saying she realized ive been abusing her for 8 years and I was a terrible boyfriend. The narrative appeared suddenly and only after the afair started. This was never raised with me, friends, or family during our relationship.
During our relationship her family and friends only praised me. Ive supported her through career struggles, health issues, anxiety, and emotion regulation. Im not saying i was perfect but the total rewriting of our relationship feels disconnected from reality.
Two weeks after the affair, I tried to have a calm conversation with her. I asked whether, someday we could remain as friends, since we grew together for 8 years. This conversation went badly. She snapped at me and said I ruined her life, physically harmed he

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