What To Even Do -
The main thrust of this post is mainly just to seek others who may have been in similar ways.
After a marriage breakdown, we have a child together, I moved out. But. But I don't have anywhere to go.
The marriage broke down because - because - it just did. No drink. Violence. Affairs. Nothing like that.
I think we just forgot we were married. I moved out because small matters would become big arguments and it was becoming a hostile place.
We needed space.
So I left.
I sofa surfed. I came back 'home' every few days to see daughter. She - she's fabulous. Just all types of fab. But I've been living rough. Freezing at night. Using swimming pool changing rooms to shower. Not eating. Just sleeping or walking outside - go to work in day - pretending all is okay.
I lost my job back in November. Redundancies. And just got myself a new job and maybe - maybe - once my income is back in positive I can hurl myself out of this pit.
I dunno.
I'm not gonna break the subs rules to talk about how im feeling and how I wish I wasn't here.
But. I dunno.
Anyone with half a less stressed and anxiety filled brain know what to do.i just feel useless and pathetic and im just so done.
Bluntly speaking, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting.
this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated
At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why this is getting picked apart That’s just my read on it.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately Time will tell.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why this is getting picked apart
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why opinions are all over the place
At this point, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, this solves one problem while creating another Let’s see what happens next.
this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here.
From where I sit, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, this feels more about execution than intent
From my side, the signal is clear, the strategy less so This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
this feels more about execution than intent That’s what makes this interesting. Not convinced this is settled yet.
the timing matters more than people admit
To be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back
From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back
Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out.
the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
Not gonna lie, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage
From a neutral view, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s just my read on it.
Stepping back, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time.
From a practical angle, the timing matters more than people admit This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Real talk, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me.
Not gonna lie, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s what people are responding to That’s just how it reads to me.
this comes across more reactive than planned which is why the comments look the way they do
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where it gets complicated At least from my perspective.
the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart Curious how this plays out.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Honestly, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Hard to say where this lands long term.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated At least from my perspective.
On the surface, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet.
If we’re being honest, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands Hard to say where this lands long term.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so
If you zoom out, this solves one problem while creating another That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Not gonna lie, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately At least from my perspective.
Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s the part people are stuck on Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me This probably isn’t the last word on it.
At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately We’ll see how people react over time.
this feels more about execution than intent and that tension shows up immediately
At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately This probably isn’t the last word on it.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.
Putting bias aside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage
From the outside, this comes across more reactive than planned This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.
From a practical angle, the direction makes sense but the details are messy This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me Feels like there’s more coming here.
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week.
this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart
From a neutral view, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the impression it gives me.
Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this
If you zoom out, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart That’s just my read on it.
this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
I get the idea, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.
Stepping back, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Curious how this plays out.
Stepping back, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately At least from my perspective.
this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this comes across more reactive than planned That part stands out.
Without overthinking it, this feels rushed rather than thought through This probably isn’t the last word on it.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split
From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here.
Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week.
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split
From a practical angle, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At first glance, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which explains why reactions are split At least from my perspective.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit
If you zoom out, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet.
From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated
To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable Let’s see what happens next.
Just reading this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
Honestly, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here.
I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
From a neutral view, this reads stronger on paper than in practice so the response doesn’t surprise me
Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why the comments look the way they do Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Stepping back, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.
the wording alone shifts how people read this Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.