I hate my best friend
Over time, I’ve grown to dislike her more and more. I thought it’d go away, since for a while, these waves of distaste would come in waves for an hour or two and then if I saw her, they’d go away. Now, my hatred of her remains when I am near her, being texted by her, or even just thinking of or being reminded of her. It isn’t just annoyance, but full on anger and sometimes disgust over every little thing.
I‘m not entirely sure why it started happening except for the fact that we had started getting closer and she was more attached than I was and I lost the desire for connection. I wasn’t in the place to invest in any type of relationship or friendship, especially one where I can’t return anything. But instead of falling back into being acquainted, I have just started to despise her. Part of it might be that she has a few mental health issues, and I have bad correlations with those because of difficult times with family members growing up, but my other friends and I myself have my own problems. When she was most comfortable with me, she had started to give me details about her deeper psychosis and I was not the right person to hear that. Moreover, she is actively getting help, but i
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back We’ll see how people react over time.
From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.
From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week.
Reaction: Every year it becomes worse
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately Interested to see the follow-up.
At this point, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That part stands out. Time will tell.
At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through That part stands out. At least from my perspective.
Honestly, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where it gets complicated Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Without overthinking it, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
Reaction: Have your insurance people speak to my people
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split Let’s see what happens next.
I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet.
At first glance, this solves one problem while creating another Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place
If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. Time will tell.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up.
To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable
From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time.
the timing matters more than people admit
the direction makes sense but the details are messy We’ll see how people react over time.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week.
From my side, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week.
From my side, the timing matters more than people admit At least from my perspective.
At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart We’ll see how people react over time.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that tension shows up immediately This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.