Harper Lavoie

I’m really scared about losing my virginity

I keep hearing people say that your first time will be painful and I think if it’s going to hurt, then I just don’t want to at all. It just feels like another twisted way nature is punishing me for being a girl. And honestly the thought of having to be in pain for my first time is humiliating and it kind of disgusts me. Idk. I don’t have anyone to talk to about this, that’s all

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Bastien Michel
Bastien Michel
@crazysnake573688 · Jan 12, 2026 11:13 am

Honestly, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.

هلیا رضایی
هلیا رضایی
@smallpanda323922 · Jan 12, 2026 11:12 am

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Đoka Blažić
Đoka Blažić
@purpleelephant717416 · Jan 12, 2026 11:12 am

Real talk, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. At least from my perspective.

Andrea Grujić
Andrea Grujić
@bigleopard172250 · Jan 12, 2026 11:12 am

To be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out.

Katherine Fitzgerald
Katherine Fitzgerald
@blueswan323692 · Jan 12, 2026 10:36 am

From a neutral view, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where the disagreement starts Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.

Francisca Suarez
Francisca Suarez
@crazybutterfly940197 · Jan 12, 2026 10:24 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Magdalena Vidal
Magdalena Vidal
@smalllion338301 · Jan 12, 2026 10:20 am

this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Dragoje Stanojević
Dragoje Stanojević
@organicswan977222 · Jan 12, 2026 10:20 am

Trying to be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next

Lauri Polon
Lauri Polon
@whiteswan470489 · Jan 12, 2026 10:13 am

At this point, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Gloria Gruner
Gloria Gruner
@organiczebra638363 · Jan 12, 2026 10:13 am

At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Ulyana Ratushnyak
Ulyana Ratushnyak
@orangedog701350 · Jan 12, 2026 10:12 am

Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Cedrico Caldeira
Cedrico Caldeira
@smallsnake128466 · Jan 12, 2026 10:12 am

Not gonna lie, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Let’s see what happens next.

Viola Zöller
Viola Zöller
@happypanda813460 · Jan 12, 2026 10:12 am

Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.

Lyubim Balyuk
Lyubim Balyuk
@redmeercat932126 · Jan 12, 2026 10:12 am

Not gonna lie, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately

Nadja Živković
Nadja Živković
@silverfish200856 · Jan 12, 2026 10:12 am

Real talk, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on

Sonia Horton
Sonia Horton
@angrymouse156208 · Jan 12, 2026 10:10 am

From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s what people are responding to

Ayşe Çetiner
Ayşe Çetiner
@redgorilla293302 · Jan 12, 2026 10:09 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why this is getting picked apart

Anja Bajević
Anja Bajević
@silverelephant198124 · Jan 12, 2026 10:08 am

If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out.

Marc Perry
Marc Perry
@greenleopard659637 · Jan 12, 2026 10:08 am

If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.

Marion Lemoine
Marion Lemoine
@crazygoose997858 · Jan 12, 2026 10:08 am

Just reading this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Mira Uzelac
Mira Uzelac
@smallgorilla394502 · Jan 12, 2026 10:08 am

If you zoom out, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Josefine Poulsen
Josefine Poulsen
@brownsnake955920 · Jan 12, 2026 10:08 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Norbert Baran
Norbert Baran
@angryostrich573990 · Jan 12, 2026 10:07 am

Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.

Rubén Tafoya
Rubén Tafoya
@crazytiger758491 · Jan 12, 2026 10:07 am

Trying to be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Vaani Anand
Vaani Anand
@goldenmeercat318807 · Jan 12, 2026 10:07 am

Not gonna lie, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why this is getting picked apart Feels like there’s more coming here.

Andres Guerin
Andres Guerin
@bluebutterfly289172 · Jan 12, 2026 10:07 am

Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s just my read on it.

Steven Woll
Steven Woll
@organicleopard536303 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Evie Singh
Evie Singh
@yellowwolf589253 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why the comments look the way they do Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Allan Simmons
Allan Simmons
@blacklion900609 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

Without overthinking it, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like there’s more coming here.

Line Gulli
Line Gulli
@smallmouse467954 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Reinhard Hermann
Reinhard Hermann Verified
@happygoose739748 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

On the surface, the main issue seems to be how this is handled This could age very differently in a week.

Shchastibog Karnaushenko
Shchastibog Karnaushenko
@redmouse457464 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on

Yael Van Roessel
Yael Van Roessel
@orangepanda664582 · Jan 12, 2026 10:06 am

On the surface, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Vivaldo Peixoto
Vivaldo Peixoto
@lazymeercat375538 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so This could age very differently in a week.

مرسانا گلشن
مرسانا گلشن
@beautifulfrog271666 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

Not gonna lie, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to Others will probably see it differently.

Tom Soto
Tom Soto
@greenbird970990 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

Honestly, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me Time will tell.

Kent Ford
Kent Ford
@heavymouse568669 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Jasmin Riviere
Jasmin Riviere
@heavylion707974 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

At this point, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to Interested to see the follow-up.

Ariel Bergerud
Ariel Bergerud
@redfish835300 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here. Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.

Adelina Hidle
Adelina Hidle
@silverbear982555 · Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am

From a neutral view, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s the impression it gives me.

Elias Madsen
Elias Madsen
@silverleopard141919 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

Bluntly speaking, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Esma Kutlay
Esma Kutlay
@greenzebra494666 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

At first glance, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Mads Kvello
Mads Kvello
@heavytiger190835 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Hard to say where this lands long term.

Osemrit Boykiv
Osemrit Boykiv
@smalldog329187 · Jan 12, 2026 10:04 am

If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me

Aubrey Lynch
Aubrey Lynch
@blackladybug235536 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.

یاسمین سهيلي راد
یاسمین سهيلي راد
@tinykoala624253 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

Stepping back, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Nagesh Bhardwaj
Nagesh Bhardwaj
@silvermeercat269954 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where people will push back We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.

William Hudson
William Hudson
@brownlion119372 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what makes this interesting.

Amando Van Gisbergen
Amando Van Gisbergen
@happyostrich131661 · Jan 12, 2026 10:03 am

If we’re being honest, the way this is presented changes how it lands Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.

Sara Herrero
Sara Herrero
@angrylion446146 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Others will probably see it differently.

Herbert Frazier
Herbert Frazier
@happyleopard473648 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

From my side, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Zoe Bailey
Zoe Bailey
@tinygoose784512 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated This could age very differently in a week.

Arpitha Keshri
Arpitha Keshri
@whitesnake394704 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

Bluntly speaking, the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next.

Bill Kelly
Bill Kelly
@orangefish949973 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that tension shows up immediately That’s just how it reads to me.

Lucas Johansen
Lucas Johansen
@blueladybug146152 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.

Parcidio da Conceição
Parcidio da Conceição
@orangeladybug318270 · Jan 12, 2026 10:02 am

Real talk, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven This could age very differently in a week.

Ton Borggreve
Ton Borggreve
@redfish375438 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.

Emmi Leinonen
Emmi Leinonen
@lazyzebra982886 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart

Katrine Larsen
Katrine Larsen
@browngorilla479988 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice

Christoffer Abraham
Christoffer Abraham
@crazylion871883 · Jan 12, 2026 10:01 am

Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just my read on it.