Is telling myself nothing matters in the end and no one cares bad when trying to build confidence?
I'm a 24 year old male, and getting older, I have reflections here and there about my life, and all the times I didn't do this or that, or "man x amount of time passed, if only I did hiking, or went to that event, or didn't cancel y"
As I get older they're starting to mount, and it's making me feel very uneasy now, what once was "I got time" is now, "holy shit what have I been doing it's been 4 years?" And slowly realizing I really don't have time and I live a very safe life.
Now I've started to develope a mindset where I tell myself I shouldn't care, I'm a spec of sand in a desert, if I die now in about a generation or 2 I'll be no different than someone young pointing at a picture of me asking who I was and having the same "damn that sucks" with no real emotion behind it because they didn't really know me, just a picture on the wall, no different than how we feel about people in history or people in your family tree that your great grandma talks about.
That in the end, none of it matters, no one cares, and I have one shot at life and I want to live it how I see fit and not for other people.
Is this wrong? Or an unhealthy way of viewing myself? The "no one cares" isn't necessarily
Putting bias aside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Let’s see what happens next.
this feels more about execution than intent and that tension shows up immediately Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately This could age very differently in a week.
Not gonna lie, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here.
Trying to be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet.
this feels more about execution than intent Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
Bluntly speaking, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out.
I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.
I get the idea, the timing matters more than people admit which is why this is getting picked apart Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
Honestly, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Interested to see the follow-up.
From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to
If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on We’ll see how people react over time.
Real talk, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out.
Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable Not convinced this is settled yet.
Honestly, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Curious how this plays out.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet.
the timing matters more than people admit
Looking at this, the timing matters more than people admit That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, the direction makes sense but the details are messy so the response doesn’t surprise me Others will probably see it differently.
Putting bias aside, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.
Without overthinking it, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place
At first glance, the timing matters more than people admit and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.
Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit That’s just how it reads to me.
From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place
Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart That’s the impression it gives me.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands
Without overthinking it, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s just how it reads to me.
this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
On the surface, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.
Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone We’ll see how people react over time.
Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here
From a neutral view, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
From the outside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.
I get the idea, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart
Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent
Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me We’ll see how people react over time.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
Just reading this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that friction is hard to ignore Hard to say where this lands long term.
From where I sit, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here At least from my perspective.
this feels more about execution than intent That’s just how it reads to me.
Real talk, the wording alone shifts how people read this Time will tell.
From my side, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.
Stepping back, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place
If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why opinions are all over the place
the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Time will tell.
At this point, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage
Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, this comes across more reactive than planned Feels like there’s more coming here.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on Time will tell.
this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
To be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice
From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that tension shows up immediately That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
Just reading this, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Honestly, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s just my read on it.
the wording alone shifts how people read this Hard to say where this lands long term.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.
I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on Feels like there’s more coming here.
I get the idea, this solves one problem while creating another Not convinced this is settled yet.
Trying to be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why this is getting picked apart That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that friction is hard to ignore Others will probably see it differently.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here.
From a practical angle, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Trying to be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to Hard to say where this lands long term.
Looking at this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Not convinced this is settled yet.
Honestly, this feels like a half-step, not a full move
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that friction is hard to ignore Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what makes this interesting.
Honestly, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like there’s more coming here.
Putting bias aside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so
Stepping back, this depends heavily on what happens next and that tension shows up immediately This could age very differently in a week.
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate Interested to see the follow-up.
Bluntly speaking, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on Hard to say where this lands long term.
Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context.
At first glance, this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
At first glance, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately Feels like there’s more coming here.