Kader Lok

Kader Lok

@yellowlion539292

Batenburg, Netherlands Joined Jan 2026

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Replying to How it felt being a people-pleaser

Just reading this, the follow-through is what will decide this Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.

Jan 12, 2026 10:53 am

Replying to I am no better than my abusers.

the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Jan 12, 2026 9:51 am

Replying to CMV: Not reproducing is wrong

Putting bias aside, this feels rushed rather than thought through so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.

Jan 12, 2026 9:03 am

Replying to Finally getting medical help

From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Jan 12, 2026 8:15 am

Replying to CMV: the bible is inherently bad.

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Jan 12, 2026 6:51 am

Replying to What To Even Do -

this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time.

Jan 12, 2026 5:28 am

Replying to Iam being with the Dog outside, really cold here

Stepping back, this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Jan 12, 2026 5:16 am

Replying to WE ARE WINNING

Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Jan 12, 2026 4:01 am

Replying to HP Laptop had no thermal paste from the factory

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.

Jan 12, 2026 3:37 am

Replying to I hate my best friend

At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why this is getting picked apart We’ll see how people react over time.

Jan 12, 2026 1:31 am

Replying to Google's Primary DNS is down

From where I sit, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.

Jan 11, 2026 9:17 pm

Replying to Starting a business

the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week.

Jan 11, 2026 8:06 pm

Replying to I want to talk about friends.

Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that friction is hard to ignore We’ll see how people react over time.

Jan 11, 2026 7:43 pm