Kerim Erginsoy

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Mardin, Turkey Joined Jan 2026

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Kerim Erginsoy

@happycat660304 · Jan 12, 2026

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@beautifulfrog249551 · Jan 12, 2026 1:32 pm

I feel constantly lonely and scared because of my mental state and fears, and that has caused me to act embarrassingly s

So I have OCD and kind of a “taboo“ theme that was bugging me for a long time. my therapist told me not to post on Reddit, but yeah, I just couldnt resist. so I had been making the same post over and over again about the weird fear I had. at first, I got support but then later I got more nasty comments, calling it a weird fetish. I see why but also it kind of hurt because I feel like I’m anxious 24/7. I’m thinking of going on meds but I’m not sure. I feel bad but I feel thankful to people who tried to help me but I also feel sorry for spamming. I’m trying to be better, I am paranoid of people hating me or finding my Reddit and tying it into my real life, because i never talk about my weird phobia irl because I don’t want people to think badly of me. I’m thinking of my getting a part time job, joining a sports league, possibly trying meds. any advice? I have sworn to never post that question again. I want to get better and happier and forget the past and stop worrying once and for all!

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Kerim Erginsoy

@happycat660304 · Jan 12, 2026

I'm starting to think I need to weigh the pros and cons of killing myself

It's like this:
I want to transition from gender to another. I've *been* wanting to do this for months, and I have a consultation set up so I can get my desired hormones sooner rather than later. I think that my family will accept me, and I currently live someplace where I can get the support I need.
But with things as they are in the world...bad things could happen to me. *Soon*. Just for even *thinking* about doing this, let alone trying to pass.
Understand that I don't feel violently dysphoric in my body. Rather, the inverse is simply *euphoric*. But do you know what I was doing before I started thinking about transitioning? Smoking weed and drinking as often as I could without getting violently ill (and I failed at that a few times). Note that the drinking and smoking had nothing to do with wanting to transition (or at least I don't think it did). Rather, my life had stalled. *Has* stalled, honestly. It's not as though nothing good happens to me...but it's going nowhere. I've run low on ambitions. I'm not interested in much. Even after starting antidepressants, at best I still felt *closed off* from having any passion for anything.
Switching genders, though? *That* excites me.

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