Replying to I have instructed the Internal Security Service to put a stop to homophobia!
From my side, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
Jan 12, 2026 2:50 pm
Replying to I'm finally done doing shit I don't give a fuck about.
Trying to be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split
Jan 12, 2026 2:38 pm
Replying to CMV: Nothing will change in America unless there is a mass re-education campaign put forth by the govt post Trump
From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
Jan 12, 2026 2:26 pm
Replying to I find it funny that many societies are OK with people marrying their first cousins, but not them being gay.
Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why this is getting picked apart
Jan 12, 2026 1:39 pm
Replying to I Idolized Adulthood and Regret It
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands
Jan 12, 2026 1:28 pm
Replying to Why dressed-up, “chic” clothing styles feel unappealing to me
If we’re being honest, this comes across more reactive than planned and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
Jan 12, 2026 1:04 pm
Replying to How do you repair racist things you’ve done and how can you be a better person to fight against racism
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context.
Jan 12, 2026 12:53 pm
Replying to CMV: Most people in america have no clue how to hate correctly
Without overthinking it, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Jan 12, 2026 12:18 pm
Replying to FTE/WFH to Hybrid/Contract/Potential FTE
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Jan 12, 2026 12:05 pm
Replying to I got an email from my past self today and it caught me off guard
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split
Jan 12, 2026 11:53 am
Replying to Building adaptive routing logic in Go for an Open source LLM gateway - Bifrost
Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Jan 12, 2026 11:42 am
Replying to I'm starting to think I need to weigh the pros and cons of killing myself
From my side, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Jan 12, 2026 11:30 am
Replying to CMV: I don’t see a point in caring
I get the idea, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Jan 12, 2026 11:18 am
Replying to It still bothers me that when this incident happened, I got consequences for it but when the same thing happened to some
Just reading this, this feels more about execution than intent which explains why reactions are split That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Jan 12, 2026 11:06 am
Replying to Looking for real side income (need around 10k/month), no fake stuff?
I get the idea, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here.
Jan 12, 2026 10:54 am
Replying to CMV: I don’t see a point in caring
I get the idea, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Jan 12, 2026 10:42 am
Replying to Who is waiting for the first Iron man like UI experience?
From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context.
Jan 12, 2026 10:30 am
Replying to Should i force myself to leave?
Bluntly speaking, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet.
Jan 12, 2026 10:19 am
Replying to My best friend catered our Pluribus viewing to me exactly
On the surface, the wording alone shifts how people read this
Jan 12, 2026 10:05 am
Replying to A deep dive into how I trained an edit model to show highly relevant code suggestions while programming
If we’re being honest, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context.
Jan 12, 2026 9:52 am
Replying to CMV: People who raise children create a positive externality for society and should be compensated for it.
From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet.
Jan 12, 2026 9:29 am
Replying to CMV: People should stop using the argument that Native Americans should be referred to as members of their tribe instead
At this point, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
Jan 12, 2026 9:17 am
Replying to Feeling extremely stuck and sad at 30
From where I sit, this feels like a half-step, not a full move
Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am
Replying to CMV: The US has a moral imperative to try to take Greenland so that Europe *finally* unites militarily and the US can fu
From the outside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here.
Jan 12, 2026 8:41 am
Replying to CMV: Purpose and Meaning are not important at all, and a desperate need to find either is generally a sign of low self w
Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Jan 12, 2026 8:29 am
Replying to AWS Amazon Q was surprisingly helpful at saving me money
At this point, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on At least from my perspective.
Jan 12, 2026 8:17 am
Replying to CMV: The only way for the "Two-party system" (aka First Past the Post) to be abolished is for Americans to agree to stop
At first glance, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.
Jan 12, 2026 8:05 am
Replying to I am taking tough action against this laziness.
Stepping back, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Jan 12, 2026 7:41 am
Replying to CMV: I disagree with the characterization of chipolte and similar restaurants as "slop bowls"
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
Jan 12, 2026 6:41 am
Replying to Life
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move We’ll see how people react over time.
Jan 12, 2026 6:29 am
Replying to I built Ctrl: Execution control plane for high stakes agentic systems
Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which explains why reactions are split
Jan 12, 2026 6:05 am
Replying to cmv: The vast majority of US politicians represent their constituents pretty closely and are not bought and paid for by
Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
Jan 12, 2026 5:41 am
Replying to My married neighbour is starting to become obsessed with me. How do I stop this from escalating?
Not gonna lie, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting.
Jan 12, 2026 5:16 am
Replying to I feel like the way I dress doesn’t affect whether my boyfriend wants me.
At this point, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. At least from my perspective.
Jan 12, 2026 4:40 am
Replying to What's the point of having the crosspost feature if you can never use it?
From my side, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where it gets complicated Curious how this plays out.
Jan 12, 2026 4:26 am
Replying to Should i force myself to leave?
Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do
Jan 12, 2026 4:04 am
Replying to I haven't had a male friend in over 5 years
Looking at this, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting.
Jan 12, 2026 3:27 am
Replying to My mother is the backbone of my family while im nothing but a burden
On the surface, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Jan 12, 2026 3:14 am
Replying to I hate my best friend
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up.
Jan 12, 2026 2:38 am
Replying to To quote the The Clash: "Should I stay or should I go now?"
Honestly, the signal is clear, the strategy less so
Jan 12, 2026 2:16 am
Replying to To quote the The Clash: "Should I stay or should I go now?"
Reaction: Every year it becomes worse
Jan 12, 2026 2:16 am
Replying to CMV: The American empire has come home, democracy here is dead.
Putting bias aside, this comes across more reactive than planned Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
Jan 12, 2026 1:55 am
Replying to CMV: The American empire has come home, democracy here is dead.
Reaction: me_irl
Jan 12, 2026 1:55 am
Replying to Windows Server 2025 DCs: Defender not starting, PDQ Inventory scans hanging, Splashtop failing
Trying to be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.
Jan 11, 2026 9:23 pm
Replying to Windows Server 2025 DCs: Defender not starting, PDQ Inventory scans hanging, Splashtop failing
Reaction: Me irl
Jan 11, 2026 9:23 pm
Replying to Secure Signing Software
At this point, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.
Jan 11, 2026 9:00 pm