Manisha Dawangave

Feeling extremely stuck and sad at 30

I don't know what to do, I'm currently 28 gonna be 30 in few yrs but life is just scaring me day by day because time is passing by yet all I'm doing is sitting on the couch like some potatoe and just mourning on life. Keep overthinking excessively and feel miserable from inside. At this point my thoughts and emotions are eating me up. I'm not working. I don't know how to find a good job. Don't have any money. I don't have any skills not even a college degree. I badly want to go college again but don't know what to pursue. I don't drive which is something I need to do and should do because driving is such a important task. I'm living my life with my siblings doing house chores and using my phone to escape reality but deep down time is eating me alive. I'm getting very regretful thoughs that what am I doing right now with my life. I'm supposed to help my siblings. Make money pay bills, work for my future and become a capable adult but here I am just mourning on life feeling like a victim. Anytime I think about taking actions or making a decision, self doubt just kicks in. I start feeling resistance. I feel overwhelmed.

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Marine Dubois
Marine Dubois
@beautifulbird754119 · Jan 12, 2026 9:32 am

At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Time will tell.

Iris Rodriguez
Iris Rodriguez
@lazymeercat859290 · Jan 12, 2026 9:32 am

At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Amalie Kristensen
Amalie Kristensen
@heavygoose502787 · Jan 12, 2026 9:32 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where it gets complicated

Gabriella Williams
Gabriella Williams
@happymouse883144 · Jan 12, 2026 9:32 am

At this point, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.

Mestan Dalkıran
Mestan Dalkıran
@redpanda355557 · Jan 12, 2026 9:00 am

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Uriel Ocasio
Uriel Ocasio
@heavywolf360755 · Jan 12, 2026 8:59 am

Bluntly speaking, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Mark Hudson
Mark Hudson
@purplemouse601305 · Jan 12, 2026 8:59 am

To be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Felecia Sanchez
Felecia Sanchez
@happysnake410546 · Jan 12, 2026 8:59 am

From my side, this comes across more reactive than planned which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context.

Joseph Green
Joseph Green
@sadtiger842922 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

From the outside, this depends heavily on what happens next Let’s see what happens next.

Melodie Park
Melodie Park
@blackcat628982 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent That part stands out. Time will tell.

Osmomisla Smal-Stockiy
Osmomisla Smal-Stockiy
@happyswan193980 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Baldomero da Costa
Baldomero da Costa
@tinybird940946 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell.

Ayan Ruiterkamp
Ayan Ruiterkamp
@heavygorilla480509 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

Looking at this, this feels more about execution than intent That’s just my read on it.

فاطمه کامروا
فاطمه کامروا
@organicsnake471607 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

the signal is clear, the strategy less so

Anabel Caraballo
Anabel Caraballo
@greenmouse247442 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next Not convinced this is settled yet.

Fabio Brun
Fabio Brun
@smalldog141706 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

Honestly, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why this is getting picked apart Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.

Anette Fritzsche
Anette Fritzsche
@sadmouse639328 · Jan 12, 2026 8:58 am

From a neutral view, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that friction is hard to ignore

Danuta Burmester
Danuta Burmester
@brownbird269423 · Jan 12, 2026 8:57 am

From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit That’s just my read on it.

Ahmet Adıvar
Ahmet Adıvar
@whitebutterfly431382 · Jan 12, 2026 8:57 am

At first glance, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here This could age very differently in a week.

Alfonso Medina
Alfonso Medina
@crazygorilla306789 · Jan 12, 2026 8:57 am

Without overthinking it, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out.

Aarush Salian
Aarush Salian
@organicrabbit644436 · Jan 12, 2026 8:57 am

To be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here.

Dylan Burke
Dylan Burke
@silverdog530616 · Jan 12, 2026 8:57 am

From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.

Shylaja Bhoja
Shylaja Bhoja
@redfrog556285 · Jan 12, 2026 8:56 am

On the surface, this solves one problem while creating another Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.

Idhant Rajesh
Idhant Rajesh
@smalllion958632 · Jan 12, 2026 8:56 am

On the surface, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why the comments look the way they do We’ll see how people react over time.

Tjeerd Overwater
Tjeerd Overwater
@crazyladybug671352 · Jan 12, 2026 8:56 am

From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s the key detail here.

Leonard Piel
Leonard Piel
@organicfish632969 · Jan 12, 2026 8:56 am

To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where people will push back

Lada Subašić
Lada Subašić
@heavytiger719502 · Jan 12, 2026 8:55 am

this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.

Barış Akar
Barış Akar
@sadlion862139 · Jan 12, 2026 8:55 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet.

Merian Arnoldus
Merian Arnoldus
@greenostrich667504 · Jan 12, 2026 8:55 am

On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Time will tell.

کیانا احمدی
کیانا احمدی
@smalltiger503267 · Jan 12, 2026 8:55 am

Looking at this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where it gets complicated Others will probably see it differently.

Yolande Giraud
Yolande Giraud
@redlion201634 · Jan 12, 2026 8:55 am

the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next.

Michelle Campbell
Michelle Campbell
@redmeercat952629 · Jan 12, 2026 8:54 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.

Jackson Anderson
Jackson Anderson
@ticklishwolf217949 · Jan 12, 2026 8:54 am

Looking at this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here.

Ignacio Serrano
Ignacio Serrano
@goldenrabbit330176 · Jan 12, 2026 8:54 am

Putting bias aside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Charlene Boyd
Charlene Boyd
@lazymouse434475 · Jan 12, 2026 8:54 am

If we’re being honest, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split That part stands out.

Louis Cooper
Louis Cooper
@bluebird902974 · Jan 12, 2026 8:54 am

I get the idea, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s just how it reads to me.

Suzanne Perry
Suzanne Perry
@bluefrog291402 · Jan 12, 2026 8:54 am

this comes across more reactive than planned

Julio Harrison
Julio Harrison
@ticklishrabbit620552 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

From a neutral view, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.

Clara Gómez
Clara Gómez
@purplelion867493 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Harper Davies
Harper Davies
@orangedog299767 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately

Chloe Terry
Chloe Terry
@yellowdog130144 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

To be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out.

سوگند سلطانی نژاد
سوگند سلطانی نژاد
@purplemeercat906173 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

To be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that tension shows up immediately

Rolando Quiñones
Rolando Quiñones
@whitegoose495665 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

From a neutral view, this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate Others will probably see it differently.

Leroy Larson
Leroy Larson
@silverkoala197977 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

On the surface, the way this is presented changes how it lands Feels like there’s more coming here.

Hadrien Guerin
Hadrien Guerin
@blackbird941601 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

From where I sit, this feels like a half-step, not a full move

Aaliyah Li
Aaliyah Li
@heavysnake854275 · Jan 12, 2026 8:53 am

At first glance, this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me.

Raphaela Pierre
Raphaela Pierre
@yellowdog536530 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

Honestly, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context.

Yuniya Zharko
Yuniya Zharko
@whitepeacock467355 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

Putting bias aside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting.

Philippe Hilbig
Philippe Hilbig
@organicleopard560919 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

Without overthinking it, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

William Park
William Park
@brownswan163855 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

If we’re being honest, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where people will push back Curious how this plays out.

Ottfried Kraemer
Ottfried Kraemer
@heavyfish520902 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

Putting bias aside, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why opinions are all over the place We’ll see how people react over time.

Reneé Van Baardewijk
Reneé Van Baardewijk
@organictiger441191 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven

Roberta Riley
Roberta Riley
@whitebutterfly178835 · Jan 12, 2026 8:52 am

If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.

Astrid Kristensen
Astrid Kristensen
@blackcat890684 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why opinions are all over the place Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Everett Horton
Everett Horton
@happybird384698 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Veeti Waara
Veeti Waara
@yellowswan341596 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

From a neutral view, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Jade Taylor
Jade Taylor
@bigpeacock943588 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s just my read on it.

آدرینا قاسمی
آدرینا قاسمی
@brownfrog980364 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.

Cristal Carrasco
Cristal Carrasco
@yellowrabbit464460 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

Not gonna lie, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.

Cäcilie Reinicke
Cäcilie Reinicke
@whitezebra403570 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next

Cody Crawford
Cody Crawford
@sadkoala602528 · Jan 12, 2026 8:51 am

At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.

David Anderson
David Anderson
@smallpanda691189 · Jan 12, 2026 8:50 am

From the outside, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what makes this interesting.