Should i force myself to leave?
My girl and i have always had on and off communication skills but recently i feel as if shes ruining my mental health more... She has made me really dependent on her and need her-backstory whenever i didnt listen or wanted to do my own things she would make me feel bad and guilty about it and use it against me so i started to i guess depend on her now its every time she leaves i feel depressed and upset.
When we get into arguments she will use it against me and not talk to me or use dry responses to throw me off and like "crawl back to her" i feel as this is really ruining me mentally and physically because i've always been a anxious person- pzhysopfrenia, anxiety, depression, bpd. and she knows that that stuff really makes me feel unwanted and i feel as if im being manipulated into needing her. Or am i just crazy and im over thinking this drastically...
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From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting.
Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so At least from my perspective.
On the surface, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on At least from my perspective.
this comes across more reactive than planned and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
I get the idea, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet.
At first glance, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where the disagreement starts
this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
I get the idea, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
Putting bias aside, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time.
From where I sit, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
Real talk, this solves one problem while creating another Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it.
At this point, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Time will tell.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why the comments look the way they do Curious how this plays out.
Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just how it reads to me.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately This could age very differently in a week.
Not gonna lie, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.
I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.
this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.
I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent Time will tell.
Putting bias aside, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why opinions are all over the place Time will tell.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit Curious how this plays out.
Without overthinking it, the way this is presented changes how it lands Time will tell.
Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which turns this into more of a debate Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.
I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent and that friction is hard to ignore Interested to see the follow-up.
Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context.
On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Without overthinking it, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where it gets complicated
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where people will push back That’s the impression it gives me.
Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
On the surface, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just my read on it.
Just reading this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context.
Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why opinions are all over the place This probably isn’t the last word on it.
If you zoom out, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.
From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to Others will probably see it differently.
the timing matters more than people admit That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this feels rushed rather than thought through At least from my perspective.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on
I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore This probably isn’t the last word on it.
If you zoom out, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that friction is hard to ignore This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
At this point, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
From where I sit, this solves one problem while creating another which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the follow-through is what will decide this That’s just how it reads to me.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting.
On the surface, the follow-through is what will decide this
Just reading this, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet.
From where I sit, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Honestly, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that tension shows up immediately This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate Hard to say where this lands long term.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts
Putting bias aside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week.
Stepping back, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From my side, the timing matters more than people admit We’ll see how people react over time.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what makes this interesting.
Looking at this, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy Not convinced this is settled yet.
Looking at this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why this is getting picked apart Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where it gets complicated That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the follow-through is what will decide this That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.
From the outside, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.
Real talk, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This could age very differently in a week.
Bluntly speaking, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s why opinions are all over the place This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.
Bluntly speaking, the direction makes sense but the details are messy so the response doesn’t surprise me Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
Real talk, this solves one problem while creating another Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Not gonna lie, the timing matters more than people admit which is why this is getting picked apart Hard to say where this lands long term.
From my side, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
From the outside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to
Bluntly speaking, this feels more about execution than intent Time will tell.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
this feels rushed rather than thought through This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Putting bias aside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Hard to say where this lands long term.
Without overthinking it, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore
Just reading this, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where it gets complicated Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands so the response doesn’t surprise me Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
From my side, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Curious how this plays out.
Just reading this, this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, this feels rushed rather than thought through so the response doesn’t surprise me Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If we’re being honest, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage This probably isn’t the last word on it.
If you zoom out, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If you zoom out, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet.
I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where people will push back Others will probably see it differently.
this feels more about execution than intent and that friction is hard to ignore
this reads stronger on paper than in practice This could age very differently in a week.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Time will tell.
From a practical angle, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.
If you zoom out, the way this is presented changes how it lands which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.
From a practical angle, this comes across more reactive than planned which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just how it reads to me.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that friction is hard to ignore This could age very differently in a week. Others will probably see it differently.
Not gonna lie, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.
To be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified so the response doesn’t surprise me Hard to say where this lands long term.
Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why opinions are all over the place Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Putting bias aside, this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context.
On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
From the outside, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.
If you zoom out, the wording alone shifts how people read this which turns this into more of a debate
At this point, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a practical angle, the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split Curious how this plays out.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven
the follow-through is what will decide this which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.
From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice
From a neutral view, this reads stronger on paper than in practice This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting.
Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here.
Putting bias aside, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to Curious how this plays out.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit That’s just how it reads to me.
the wording alone shifts how people read this
Putting bias aside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here.
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to
From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone At least from my perspective.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so That part stands out. Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
Without overthinking it, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do
this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated
this depends heavily on what happens next This probably isn’t the last word on it.
this comes across more reactive than planned and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
Without overthinking it, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s just my read on it.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, the wording alone shifts how people read this Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here.
I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time.
Stepping back, the main issue seems to be how this is handled
Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
I get the idea, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which makes the reaction pretty predictable Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Feels like there’s more coming here.
Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which turns this into more of a debate Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven
If you zoom out, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where it gets complicated Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.
Putting bias aside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
Just reading this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do
Just reading this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Trying to be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me Time will tell.
Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this
this comes across more reactive than planned That’s just my read on it.
Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands Feels like there’s more coming here.
Trying to be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me
Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time.
the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split Others will probably see it differently.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place Curious how this plays out.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet.
Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable Interested to see the follow-up.
Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where people will push back
From where I sit, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s what makes this interesting. That’s the impression it gives me.
Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s the impression it gives me.
Not gonna lie, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another which explains why reactions are split
the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
To be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so This probably isn’t the last word on it.
At this point, the timing matters more than people admit and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Not convinced this is settled yet.
From where I sit, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately Hard to say where this lands long term.
If we’re being honest, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.
Bluntly speaking, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a neutral view, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do