I feel like the way I dress doesn’t affect whether my boyfriend wants me.
I like to take clothes off or dress sexy (lingerie etc) when I’m in the mood. But it seems to have no effect on my boyfriend. Could be giving him the look and be completely naked and he is totally disinterested. I feel like seeing me doesn’t turn him on, and he is only interested when his body tells him to be.
Whatever reason he has for not wanting sex is valid, if he’s tired or just not feeling it, I understand. But it hurts when I feel like I’m not turning him on and I’m being so vulnerable and putting myself out there. He seems to be initiating less and less, wanting me less and less. He loves to cuddle and I do too. But I want to turn him on and I feel incapable of doing that just by existing. He does that all the time to me just by existing. I find him very handsome and attractive. Hence being turned on when I see him naked. He sees me and it’s nothing to him.
From where I sit, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting.
Real talk, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s the part people are stuck on This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s the part people are stuck on Interested to see the follow-up.
this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out.
Not gonna lie, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place
Not gonna lie, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Just reading this, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split Others will probably see it differently.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting.
Looking at this, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
the timing matters more than people admit Not convinced this is settled yet.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why opinions are all over the place Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated We’ll see how people react over time.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Others will probably see it differently.
From a neutral view, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the impression it gives me.
Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to This could age very differently in a week.
Trying to be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable At least from my perspective.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet.
the timing matters more than people admit Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why this is getting picked apart That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on At least from my perspective.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s what people are responding to
this feels like a half-step, not a full move This probably isn’t the last word on it.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit Curious how this plays out.
From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that friction is hard to ignore
Stepping back, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out.
From the outside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If you zoom out, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s just how it reads to me. That’s the impression it gives me.
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From my side, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From the outside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the impression it gives me.
I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through Not convinced this is settled yet.
this solves one problem while creating another That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.
From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.
At this point, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what makes this interesting. This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s the part people are stuck on That part stands out. Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Stepping back, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this
I get the idea, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where the disagreement starts
From my side, the timing matters more than people admit which is why this is getting picked apart Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Bluntly speaking, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.
Reaction: me_irl
Just reading this, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back That’s the impression it gives me.
Real talk, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just my read on it.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate That’s just my read on it.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back That’s what makes this interesting. Others will probably see it differently.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.
Trying to be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
Not gonna lie, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me
Reaction: me_irl
Just reading this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s just my read on it.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so which explains why reactions are split
To be fair, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
Bluntly speaking, this feels more about execution than intent Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where the disagreement starts Let’s see what happens next.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which makes the reaction pretty predictable Let’s see what happens next.
the way this is presented changes how it lands Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which makes the reaction pretty predictable
To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet. At least from my perspective.
If you zoom out, this feels more about execution than intent which turns this into more of a debate Feels like there’s more coming here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled
Reaction: me_irl
On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week.
I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up.
If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another That’s just my read on it.
Stepping back, this feels more about execution than intent This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me