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@beautifulfrog249551 · Jan 12, 2026

I feel constantly lonely and scared because of my mental state and fears, and that has caused me to act embarrassingly s

So I have OCD and kind of a “taboo“ theme that was bugging me for a long time. my therapist told me not to post on Reddit, but yeah, I just couldnt resist. so I had been making the same post over and over again about the weird fear I had. at first, I got support but then later I got more nasty comments, calling it a weird fetish. I see why but also it kind of hurt because I feel like I’m anxious 24/7. I’m thinking of going on meds but I’m not sure. I feel bad but I feel thankful to people who tried to help me but I also feel sorry for spamming. I’m trying to be better, I am paranoid of people hating me or finding my Reddit and tying it into my real life, because i never talk about my weird phobia irl because I don’t want people to think badly of me. I’m thinking of my getting a part time job, joining a sports league, possibly trying meds. any advice? I have sworn to never post that question again. I want to get better and happier and forget the past and stop worrying once and for all!

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@beautifulfrog249551 · Jan 12, 2026
Lorenzo Bruch
Lorenzo Bruch
@brownbear611345 · Jan 12, 2026 11:38 am

Building adaptive routing logic in Go for an Open source LLM gateway - Bifrost

Working on an LLM gateway (Bifrost)- Code is open source: [https://github.com/maxim-ai/bifrost](https://github.com/maxim-ai/bifrost), ran into an interesting problem: how do you route requests across multiple LLM providers when failures happen gradually?
Traditional load balancing assumes binary states – up or down. But LLM API degradations are messy. A region starts timing out, some routes spike in errors, latency drifts up over minutes. By the time it's a full outage, you've already burned through retries and user patience.
Static configs don't cut it. You can't pre-model which provider/region/key will degrade and how.
**The challenge:** build adaptive routing that learns from live traffic and adjusts in real time, with <10µs overhead per request. Had to sit on the hot path without becoming the bottleneck.
**Why Go made sense:**
* Needed lock-free scoring updates across concurrent requests
* EWMA (exponentially weighted moving averages) for smoothing signals without allocations
* Microsecond-level latency requirements ruled out Python/Node
* Wanted predictable GC pauses under high RPS
**How it works:** Each route gets a continuously updated score based on live signals – error rat

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@beautifulfrog249551 · Jan 11, 2026
Jackson Anderson
Jackson Anderson
@ticklishwolf217949 · Jan 11, 2026 5:42 pm

Some emotional patterns repeat in every relationship

I started noticing that different people triggered the same reactions in me.
Same fears. Same expectations. Same disappointments.
It made me realize something uncomfortable:
Sometimes it’s not the relationship — it’s the pattern we bring into it.
Until those patterns are seen, they tend to repeat, no matter who the person is.
Not advice.
Just an observation.

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