Sandra Chevalier

@blackzebra382316

Just never had an online friend before. I promise I’m chill. Also I’m looking for an actual friend not one conversation!

Mulhouse, France Joined Jan 2026

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Sandra Chevalier

@blackzebra382316 · Jan 12, 2026

I have a problem with sex and can't seem to deal with it.

I never really took this in consideration and always thought i was just a pervert for liking kinky shit and that was all, but now growing up to become a adult i realized i really have a problem.
I was sexualy assaulted at a very early age and it opened a really deep scar on me. I believed i had grown out of the trauma and just creates this weird, inoffensive, relationship with sex, but now I see the problem is so much much much more deep than that.
As a teenager i became really in touch with sexual topics and pornography, also in a really early and inappropriate age, which made things worse. I am diagnosed with chronic clinical depression and thought-out my teenage days it was the worse period of it, so naturally i had a really low libido, but that never stopped me from watching pornography as if it were tiktok videos nor touching myself even if i didn't feel anything. I thought it was what people normally did when they were bored. I was never really engaged in touching myself, it wasn't fun, it was just, boredom. I didn't do it for pleasure.
Well, at the time i didn't have any sex life and at the moment that i had sex for the first time in my life, everything changed. Firstly, my

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Sandra Chevalier

@blackzebra382316 · Jan 12, 2026

Elóides Cavalcanti

@redleopard256393 · Jan 11, 2026 7:56 pm

Boss wants us to implement Google credential manager instead of a PW manager (Vaultwarden)

Hello,
We are using Entra ID, and majority of users use chrome for browsing. I brought up the idea of hosting a PW manager and was quickly denied because someone said it was cheaper and easier and just as safe to use google credential manager.
I'd create a google cloud identity tenant and give our users gmail accounts to have their PW managers..
From a security standpoint, what is my best argument to say why a dedicated PW manager is more secure for both comliance and security ? Or is it not a big deal ?

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@blackzebra382316 · Jan 12, 2026

Line Gulli

@smallmouse467954 · Jan 12, 2026 12:37 am

My mother is the backbone of my family while im nothing but a burden

Idk if it matters or is relevant, but my family is Asian with my parents being the first of their family to move and start a life outside their home country. They have worked extremely hard to be able to provide for me, my siblings, and their own families. They send money back home whenever they can and are even helping to support my dads side of the family who live here but aren't doing as well as us. Both my parents work every day to sustain my comfortable lifestyle, my mom especially.
Getting up at 4-5am for work, coming back home around 2pm, cooking for the house (8 people rn, parents, me, 2 siblings, grandma, cousin, uncle) and then going to work again from 7 to 10. Even if the second job is with my dad, cousin and uncle, My mom never has a chance to take a break, and I have no way to help her.
The plan for me originally was that I would go to college and work after finishing my program. Last semester I had failed one of my classes and failed basically all of my finals which has now put me on academic probation. I'm not going to continue the program because I'm not interested in it (wasn't originally) and it seems like more money would be wasted if I did continue. My mom doesn

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