women who act like guys owe them a certain appearance?
I have medium length hair, a bit past shoulder which I'm happy with. Its comfortable and suits me and one thing I've experienced that really disgusts me is how some women comment on it ?
I'm non binary but most people outside of close friends dont care and I'm fine mostly being just approximated as a guy..
And some women esp within my family will openly comment to me about how they wish I'd cut it short, or how only certain "guys" can pull off long hair. Or act like I don't deserve it unless i care for it really well (i have difficult curly hair which I do take care of and spend a lot of time and money on but even if i didnt it shouldnt matter?? Ive seen plenty of women with my hair type who do way worse.)
I live in a fairly conservative area, but mostly when guys interact with me they'll just tell me they like it or wish they had something like it.
And even the men who are weird about it it feels less uncomfortable because, at least they hold themselves to the same standard? And theres no undertone of like, me having to be desirable to them sexually that there is when women comment.
It really bothers me when I hear this kinda thing from women particularly.. I wonder if anyone has
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this Hard to say where this lands long term.
To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this That part stands out. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned which makes the reaction pretty predictable
Bluntly speaking, this depends heavily on what happens next so the response doesn’t surprise me Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart This probably isn’t the last word on it.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where people will push back Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage so the response doesn’t surprise me Others will probably see it differently.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s what people are responding to Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
To be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which makes the reaction pretty predictable
Without overthinking it, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
the way this is presented changes how it lands Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
Bluntly speaking, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out.
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
From my side, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so This probably isn’t the last word on it.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next. That’s the impression it gives me.
Trying to be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
this comes across more reactive than planned Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.
I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through which makes the reaction pretty predictable Hard to say where this lands long term.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what changes the context. That’s just how it reads to me.
the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a neutral view, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s the impression it gives me.
Bluntly speaking, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
At this point, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Not gonna lie, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just my read on it.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.
Not gonna lie, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
Bluntly speaking, the way this is presented changes how it lands At least from my perspective.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next.
Without overthinking it, the wording alone shifts how people read this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s the part people are stuck on Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands Feels like there’s more coming here.
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Interested to see the follow-up.
Trying to be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do
the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
At first glance, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s what makes this interesting.
this depends heavily on what happens next At least from my perspective.
Putting bias aside, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.
the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the timing matters more than people admit which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s just how it reads to me.
At this point, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on
On the surface, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.
Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another Feels like there’s more coming here.
From my side, the timing matters more than people admit and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back That part stands out.
At this point, this solves one problem while creating another which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At this point, this solves one problem while creating another
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here.
this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split That’s what changes the context. Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.
this depends heavily on what happens next That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Honestly, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why opinions are all over the place Interested to see the follow-up.
If you zoom out, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.