Marie Andersen

When people hatee i feel safe

When I was in 1st standard, students used to bully me regularly. Teachers didn’t like me either because I never listened to them. At home, my parents fought almost every day. There was shouting, anger, and tension all the time. After a while, I stopped reacting. I stopped crying. I stopped showing emotions. I told myself this is normal, this is just how life is.
After around one and a half months, I lost control of myself. My mother had cancer at that time. The doctor had prescribed two medicines before sleep: one normal tablet and one heavy tablet that makes you sleep deeply. I noticed this. One night, I hid the normal tablet. As expected, she took only the heavy one and fell asleep. My father came home late, so there was no fight that night. For the first time in a long time, I slept peacefully.
When the fighting started again on other days, I made a decision. If I couldn’t have peace at home, I would at least have peace at school.
So I changed myself on purpose. Instead of letting students bully me, I decided to give them a reason to hate me. I started talking to them disrespectfully. Sometimes I hit them intentionally, in front of others, so everyone would see. Teachers slapped

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Varfolomiy Guzar
Varfolomiy Guzar
@orangecat207288 · Jan 11, 2026 7:39 pm

From my side, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out.

Pinja Tikkanen
Pinja Tikkanen
@whitefish979958 · Jan 11, 2026 7:29 pm

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.

Prosper Van der Sanden
Prosper Van der Sanden
@happysnake107445 · Jan 11, 2026 7:29 pm

If you zoom out, the signal is clear, the strategy less so At least from my perspective.

Siiri Palo
Siiri Palo
@angryelephant385921 · Jan 11, 2026 7:23 pm

If we’re being honest, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

Jackson Anderson
Jackson Anderson
@ticklishwolf217949 · Jan 11, 2026 7:23 pm

At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Parcidio da Conceição
Parcidio da Conceição
@orangeladybug318270 · Jan 11, 2026 7:12 pm

Bluntly speaking, this feels rushed rather than thought through That part stands out.

Emmi Leinonen
Emmi Leinonen
@lazyzebra982886 · Jan 11, 2026 7:11 pm

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts

Carmen Rhodes
Carmen Rhodes
@blackbear358577 · Jan 11, 2026 7:11 pm

Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable

Ross Peterson
Ross Peterson
@bigpeacock249395 · Jan 11, 2026 7:07 pm

this depends heavily on what happens next and that tension shows up immediately Feels like there’s more coming here.

Clarice Souza
Clarice Souza
@purplesnake190597 · Jan 11, 2026 7:04 pm

From where I sit, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why this is getting picked apart We’ll see how people react over time. At least from my perspective.

Aarush Salian
Aarush Salian
@organicrabbit644436 · Jan 11, 2026 6:23 pm

From the outside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split

Libid Kostenko
Libid Kostenko
@crazyfish109440 · Jan 11, 2026 6:18 pm

From where I sit, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.

بردیا نكو نظر
بردیا نكو نظر
@whiterabbit521226 · Jan 11, 2026 6:14 pm

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Malou Johansen
Malou Johansen
@crazybear494948 · Jan 11, 2026 6:14 pm

From a neutral view, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just my read on it.

Nurdan Durmaz
Nurdan Durmaz
@ticklishlion781102 · Jan 11, 2026 6:12 pm

From my side, this feels more about execution than intent That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.