When people disrespect me, I cut them off completely.
Hi. I (25) am really introverted, and while I am really energetic with very specific people I am close and comfortable with, I have trouble standing up for myself and saying no and demanding respect. I think I would consider myself kind and empathetic. People see this as either something good or something they can take advantage of.
When people disrespect me, I just laugh and act like everything's fine. But I am not. I find it difficult to say right there in their face that it's not okay to treat me like that. Instead, I cut them off completely from my life. If it's school or work and I can't cut them off immediately, I try my best to be very simple and try to avoid them the best I can. Then, when I graduate or move jobs, I block them everywhere and make sure I never see them ever again.
I totally get where you're coming from. Setting boundaries is crucial, especially when it comes to disrespect. It’s hard enough to open up as an introvert, and it's a shame to let toxic people drain your energy. Prioritizing your peace is essential.