Lada Subašić

When people disrespect me, I cut them off completely.

Hi. I (25) am really introverted, and while I am really energetic with very specific people I am close and comfortable with, I have trouble standing up for myself and saying no and demanding respect. I think I would consider myself kind and empathetic. People see this as either something good or something they can take advantage of.
When people disrespect me, I just laugh and act like everything's fine. But I am not. I find it difficult to say right there in their face that it's not okay to treat me like that. Instead, I cut them off completely from my life. If it's school or work and I can't cut them off immediately, I try my best to be very simple and try to avoid them the best I can. Then, when I graduate or move jobs, I block them everywhere and make sure I never see them ever again.

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Vidyalaxmi Naik
Vidyalaxmi Naik
@sadgoose901926 · Jan 10, 2026 8:17 pm

Reaction: me irl

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Maeve Sales
Maeve Sales
@organicostrich395840 · Jan 10, 2026 8:16 pm

At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s just my read on it.

Aarush Salian
Aarush Salian
@organicrabbit644436 · Jan 10, 2026 8:13 pm

Reaction: He belongs to her now.

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Mira Uzelac
Mira Uzelac
@smallgorilla394502 · Jan 10, 2026 8:13 pm

To be fair, this reads stronger on paper than in practice Let’s see what happens next.