Single wishing for family
Alright so I’m still young and I know I have time but I feel fucking unlovable.
I have had a tough childhood (not financially, just relationship wise) and I have dreamed of being a mum since I was young - while studying, doing sports and travelling the world, I’ve always said my biggest wish has always been to be a mum one day and have a family in my own.
I have however been single my whole life, never even had a situationship.
I live in central Europe and I just can’t talk with the boys for more than 10 minutes - they genuinely seem so immature. I don’t have this issue with Americans or Brits (it was not holidays talks, they are my actual friends) but I live fuckin elsewhere.
If there’s a man I can talk to in my country or the countries around they’re usually close to/in their 30’s when the issue starts because I’m still at uni and not looking to settle down asap.
Men there just cannot respect I am a Christian as well and the moment they ask “after how long can I first give a guy what he wants?” And I say I’d prefer to wait the conversation is over because for them is two weeks only.
I just feel so lost.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so This could age very differently in a week.
From the outside, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate Time will tell.
Reaction: French is so hard
Trying to be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like an opening move, not an ending. At least from my perspective.
From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Others will probably see it differently.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Hard to say where this lands long term.
Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.
Putting bias aside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here.
If we’re being honest, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
Looking at this, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here.
I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. Feels like there’s more coming here.
Looking at this, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which is why the comments look the way they do At least from my perspective.
From where I sit, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that tension shows up immediately This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.
Looking at this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s just my read on it.
On the surface, the direction makes sense but the details are messy Interested to see the follow-up.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
Reaction: Why am I scared? Probably because one time my grandma got pulled over when I was a kid and she told the cop that her bad driving was because of me and he came to my window. I didnt do anythi
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit which is why this is getting picked apart
Real talk, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated
From my side, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
From my side, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet.
From my side, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet.
To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just how it reads to me.
From where I sit, the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out.
Reaction: me_irl
At first glance, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that friction is hard to ignore That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
Trying to be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Let’s see what happens next.
Honestly, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s the part people are stuck on This probably isn’t the last word on it.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.
this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate This could age very differently in a week.
At this point, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this
Without overthinking it, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Just reading this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.
Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this Let’s see what happens next.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.
From a practical angle, the wording alone shifts how people read this
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.
Stepping back, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore
Without overthinking it, this solves one problem while creating another which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.