My friend is mean
Hi Reddit,
I recently told my friend in casual conversation about an artistic hobby I always wanted to try as a kid.
The hobby I wanted to try was too expensive for the family, so I never could.
She told me “why would you admit you are a wannabe”
I feel hurt that I opened up about something I always dreamed of doing and being brushed off like that.
It doesn’t help that she’s been an a-hole lately, so maybe that was just the cherry on top.
Does anyone have any advice on how I can let this dream go and not feel hurt by a comment like this?
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If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
Reaction: I'm recreating 1939
I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
Reaction: very shocking
Stepping back, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Reaction: me_irl
Reaction: me_irl
Reaction: Reality is an Illusion
Reaction: very shocking
At this point, this comes across more reactive than planned We’ll see how people react over time.
Reaction: Please change, Reddit. Please change.
Reaction: Hate when it happens
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which makes the reaction pretty predictable Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Reaction: me_irl
Reaction: me_irl
Reaction: me_irl
Reaction: me_irl
Reaction: You will not see these end of this day!
Reaction: I expected better from you
Reaction: "I Can't Eat This!" ~Pig
Just reading this, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This probably isn’t the last word on it.