Me and the way I interact with people
I actually find it funny and confusing how I feel sad about being lonely and not having anyone to talk to when I feel really bad/really happy
But at the same time I distance myself from people who makes an effort to get close at me and then try to get close at people who distance themselves from me/don't like me much
If anyone feels the same way as well, do you have any idea why? I would like to understand or solve this to be honest
also I like starting relationships (friendships) but I don't maintain it. any reason why? and how can I fix this
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week.
Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what changes the context.
Without overthinking it, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that friction is hard to ignore That’s just how it reads to me.
Reaction: It makes a huge difference.
At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
Reaction: Me irl
Reaction: me_irl
Real talk, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Reaction: Conformity Gate
Honestly, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage We’ll see how people react over time.