Jackson Anderson

Me and the way I interact with people

I actually find it funny and confusing how I feel sad about being lonely and not having anyone to talk to when I feel really bad/really happy
But at the same time I distance myself from people who makes an effort to get close at me and then try to get close at people who distance themselves from me/don't like me much
If anyone feels the same way as well, do you have any idea why? I would like to understand or solve this to be honest
also I like starting relationships (friendships) but I don't maintain it. any reason why? and how can I fix this

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Joaquin Delgado
Joaquin Delgado
@yellowdog427928 · Jan 11, 2026 11:47 am

Reaction: Dont tell your wife shes like her mother

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Joaquin Delgado
Joaquin Delgado
@yellowdog427928 · Jan 11, 2026 11:47 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Silviana Rezende
Silviana Rezende
@greenfish465991 · Jan 11, 2026 11:46 am

From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Anastas Makoterskiy
Anastas Makoterskiy
@yellowladybug791716 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

Without overthinking it, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where people will push back

Shantie Ellens
Shantie Ellens
@silverostrich449305 · Jan 11, 2026 11:42 am

the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split

Pratyush Dhamdhame
Pratyush Dhamdhame
@lazyswan123503 · Jan 11, 2026 11:38 am

Bluntly speaking, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.

Sofia Ibáñez
Sofia Ibáñez
@blackfrog649906 · Jan 11, 2026 11:37 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.

Dibach Matyash
Dibach Matyash
@orangegoose190417 · Jan 11, 2026 11:33 am

Reaction: He belongs to her now.

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Dibach Matyash
Dibach Matyash
@orangegoose190417 · Jan 11, 2026 11:33 am

To be fair, this solves one problem while creating another which explains why reactions are split Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Nicolas Soler
Nicolas Soler
@yellowleopard424245 · Jan 11, 2026 11:32 am

From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts

Amalie Kristensen
Amalie Kristensen
@heavygoose502787 · Jan 11, 2026 11:20 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Claudia Cooper
Claudia Cooper
@orangekoala556433 · Jan 11, 2026 11:20 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Claudia Cooper
Claudia Cooper
@orangekoala556433 · Jan 11, 2026 11:20 am

From the outside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Melodie Park
Melodie Park
@blackcat628982 · Jan 11, 2026 11:19 am

From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Soan Pierre
Soan Pierre
@yellowpeacock996435 · Jan 11, 2026 10:57 am

Reaction: Reality is an Illusion

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Soan Pierre
Soan Pierre
@yellowpeacock996435 · Jan 11, 2026 10:57 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Time will tell.

Merian Arnoldus
Merian Arnoldus
@greenostrich667504 · Jan 11, 2026 10:49 am

Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.

Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.

Caleb Graves
Caleb Graves
@redpanda550293 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Justine Fortin
Justine Fortin
@sadostrich654437 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: very shocking

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Branka Tošić
Branka Tošić
@whiteelephant217184 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: And I always fall for it!

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عرشيا جعفری
عرشيا جعفری
@lazybear169970 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Logan Willis
Logan Willis
@organicladybug542966 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: Reddits privacy feature is so useless

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Rosa Mortensen
Rosa Mortensen
@heavydog884429 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Just reading this, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.