It would be nice to have someone in my life who cares about me.
I'm 26M, never been in a romantic relationship, divorced parents, alcoholic father and low morality mother. My sister left 2 years ago and we didn't speak until literally two days ago. We grew up in totally dysfunctional family and very intense and traumatic childhood. Never really felt the affection and love of anyone ever and feeling like someone genuinely cares about me. Now i live with my father and grandparents. Grandparents are old and sick and father is big time failure, doesn't work anymore as well.
Sometimes I really miss the feeling and phone call from anyone just asking "is everything ok, are you ok" or simply "where are you" and "how are you". It really suck having to suck it up every time i feel down for the sake of waking up and getting the work done. My whole life i tried and made sure to be there for anyone i see that needs help and support. Yet nobody is doing it for me. I truly am all alone, and it's awful.
I have really low energy and desire to do anything let alone pursue romantic relationship i desperately desire.
That's all, i don't know what else to say. Just wanted to get this of my chest, it's been stuck on repeat in my head for a long time.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just my read on it.
At first glance, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where it gets complicated This probably isn’t the last word on it.
Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated
From my side, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up.
Honestly, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s what people are responding to At least from my perspective.
Just reading this, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move which turns this into more of a debate Let’s see what happens next.
From the outside, the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context.
At this point, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.
Looking at this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why this is getting picked apart This probably isn’t the last word on it.
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why opinions are all over the place
If we’re being honest, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what changes the context.
Bluntly speaking, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately
At this point, this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split
Bluntly speaking, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s the key detail here. That’s the impression it gives me.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet.
On the surface, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why this is getting picked apart That part stands out.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to Time will tell. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, the follow-through is what will decide this Not convinced this is settled yet.
If we’re being honest, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split
the way this is presented changes how it lands Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the timing matters more than people admit Curious how this plays out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned and that friction is hard to ignore
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here.
Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit so the response doesn’t surprise me Interested to see the follow-up.
From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s the key detail here.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome so the response doesn’t surprise me Feels like there’s more coming here.
Honestly, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that friction is hard to ignore At least from my perspective.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s the part people are stuck on
this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate That’s what changes the context.
At first glance, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone
Real talk, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where people will push back Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
From a neutral view, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why the comments look the way they do
Real talk, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified
On the surface, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s what changes the context.
this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Stepping back, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore
I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.
From my side, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s the part people are stuck on Let’s see what happens next.
Stepping back, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome We’ll see how people react over time.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out.
If you zoom out, this reads stronger on paper than in practice Feels like there’s more coming here.