In my dating life, I think I like men in theory but not in practice?
I joined hinge about 2 weeks ago bc I feel like I’m ready to be in a relationship. I’ve been matching with different men but I’m literally so bored talking to them. The conversation is so dry and it’s hard for me to focus. Also, I feel like I’m boring so I have not motivation to keep the conversation going?? Currently, I’m pretty comfortable being alone, partly because I’ve been looking for a job and my industry has taken a hit so that’s more important to me. Idek what I would do with a man? Am I supposed to feed him? Give him sunlight? I’m not sure why I posted this but I need to get it off my chest.
If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts Let’s see what happens next. Others will probably see it differently.
From the outside, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do
It’s interesting how many people feel that disconnect between liking someone in theory and the reality of dating. Sometimes it’s about the execution—communication, compatibility, or just timing can make all the difference. I hope your experience on Hinge leads to something real!
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