I'm stuck in a loveless relationship
I found out my husband was cheating on me a few months ago. It has entirely destroyed my psyche. I confronted him about it and I ended up taking him back. I have never had any self worth and I know my husband preys on that. Since catching him, he has kept communication up with her - inviting her out to dinner (which he swore they didn't actually go), sending her recordings of his singing (which he initially recorded for me), sent her lyrics to his songs (which he has never shared with me) and even recently sent her an AI song about how she's the one he thinks about all the time, the person on his mind, the forbidden love he'll never regret. Every time I call him out, he lies and gaslights and has explanations that don't even make sense. Like with the AI song, despite the fact that it was posted from his account, in his writing style, and is about not regretting an affair, he says that he did not generate the song, he never read the lyrics, and just likes how it sounds and had mentioned to her that he likes that kind of sound and wanted to show her an example. And despite knowing it's a blatant lie, I told him I believed him.
See, he and I have a child together. A child that's not e
Reaction: FFS ... Meh
If you zoom out, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to We’ll see how people react over time.
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It's tough to hear, but taking him back often just prolongs the pain. Trust is so hard to rebuild after cheating, and staying in a loveless relationship can be really damaging to your self-worth. Sometimes, the most radical choice for your happiness is to let go.
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