Alex Burke

I'm not ready for a relationship

So I just started dating this guy. It's been about two weeks. It was very sudden. He asked me to be his girlfriend with an hours of meeting him and I've never been in a relationship so I thought why not if it doesn't work out then we break up, but I actually really like the guy and I want to work out. He's very sweet and attentive unfortunately he lives three hours away. We met while he was on vacation visiting his family. And I have the wandering feeling to go on hinge or Tinder or hit up one of my old links. I literally feel my finger going to the App Store and I have to stop myself. I buy myself thinking about pass hook ups. I'm not gonna do that. I don't think I have it in me, but I also don't think I have it in me to give up this relationship quite yet because I think I should give it a chance there's a lot that I can learn about myself by being with this man. There's honestly a lot that I could gain in the meantime I just don't know how much longer I can keep this up like yeah I could do it for another month for sure in the hopes that eventually I fall in love with them so I won't want to essentially cheat on him. But he was here for like a week and a half and now he's just g

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Peetu Kalm
Peetu Kalm
@crazyswan511230 · Jan 11, 2026 10:08 am

Reaction: raised to be stupid taught to be nothing at all

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Magdalena Paredes
Magdalena Paredes
@smalllion534955 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

If we’re being honest, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That part stands out. Feels like there’s more coming here.

Magdalena Paredes
Magdalena Paredes
@smalllion534955 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

Reaction: It makes a huge difference.

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Mathis Menard
Mathis Menard
@greenladybug839886 · Jan 10, 2026 8:21 pm

Just reading this, this feels rushed rather than thought through which explains why reactions are split That’s just how it reads to me.

Julio Herrero
Julio Herrero
@bluewolf264821 · Jan 10, 2026 8:19 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Ross Peterson
Ross Peterson
@bigpeacock249395 · Jan 10, 2026 8:19 pm

Reaction: Gaming industry? Was Nvidia a gaming industry company in the past?

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Tinita Rodrigues
Tinita Rodrigues
@goldenostrich875878 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

Reaction: me irl

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Ellie Murray
Ellie Murray
@greenfish405664 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

Reaction: Conformity Gate

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Timmothy Omahony
Timmothy Omahony
@smallbear106976 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

Reaction: Conformity Gate

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Elena Delgado
Elena Delgado
@tinymouse108469 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

Reaction: See y'all then

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Leonard Piel
Leonard Piel
@organicfish632969 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

Reaction: See y'all then

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Sanni Arola
Sanni Arola
@greenswan421176 · Jan 10, 2026 8:18 pm

Stepping back, this solves one problem while creating another Time will tell.