Sandra Chevalier

I have a problem with sex and can't seem to deal with it.

I never really took this in consideration and always thought i was just a pervert for liking kinky shit and that was all, but now growing up to become a adult i realized i really have a problem.
I was sexualy assaulted at a very early age and it opened a really deep scar on me. I believed i had grown out of the trauma and just creates this weird, inoffensive, relationship with sex, but now I see the problem is so much much much more deep than that.
As a teenager i became really in touch with sexual topics and pornography, also in a really early and inappropriate age, which made things worse. I am diagnosed with chronic clinical depression and thought-out my teenage days it was the worse period of it, so naturally i had a really low libido, but that never stopped me from watching pornography as if it were tiktok videos nor touching myself even if i didn't feel anything. I thought it was what people normally did when they were bored. I was never really engaged in touching myself, it wasn't fun, it was just, boredom. I didn't do it for pleasure.
Well, at the time i didn't have any sex life and at the moment that i had sex for the first time in my life, everything changed. Firstly, my

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Milovan Živković
Milovan Živković
@heavypeacock773407 · Jan 12, 2026 2:42 pm

Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.

Sara Barrett
Sara Barrett
@happyostrich542183 · Jan 12, 2026 2:38 pm

From my side, the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out.

Julia Cabrera
Julia Cabrera
@greenbird505431 · Jan 12, 2026 2:36 pm

the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the impression it gives me.

Dibach Matyash
Dibach Matyash
@orangegoose190417 · Jan 12, 2026 2:31 pm

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome so the response doesn’t surprise me

Dibach Matyash
Dibach Matyash
@orangegoose190417 · Jan 12, 2026 2:31 pm

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Olivia Luna
Olivia Luna
@ticklishfish306243 · Jan 12, 2026 2:06 pm

Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to Let’s see what happens next.

Eduartino da Mata
Eduartino da Mata
@orangekoala993668 · Jan 12, 2026 2:05 pm

Trying to be fair, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

عرشيا جعفری
عرشيا جعفری
@lazybear169970 · Jan 12, 2026 1:45 pm

Real talk, the follow-through is what will decide this

Đurađ Stojković
Đurađ Stojković
@heavylion479384 · Jan 12, 2026 1:45 pm

From where I sit, the signal is clear, the strategy less so At least from my perspective.

Gerolf Philipps
Gerolf Philipps
@sadzebra758839 · Jan 12, 2026 1:44 pm

Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Gabriella Williams
Gabriella Williams
@happymouse883144 · Jan 12, 2026 1:43 pm

Not gonna lie, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.

Nathaniel Spencer
Nathaniel Spencer
@bigdog414847 · Jan 12, 2026 1:39 pm

Stepping back, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Candice Nab
Candice Nab
@orangedog503945 · Jan 12, 2026 1:39 pm

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here.

Lea Nielsen
Lea Nielsen
@smallgorilla715445 · Jan 12, 2026 1:37 pm

From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet.

Violeta Roy
Violeta Roy
@lazyfrog401104 · Jan 12, 2026 1:37 pm

From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s what people are responding to We’ll see how people react over time.

Lucas Montero
Lucas Montero
@bluerabbit459168 · Jan 12, 2026 1:37 pm

Stepping back, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.

Irene Moreno
Irene Moreno
@crazygorilla950279 · Jan 12, 2026 1:37 pm

From my side, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell.

Ritchie Van Riel
Ritchie Van Riel
@redpanda169291 · Jan 12, 2026 1:37 pm

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what makes this interesting.

Encarnación Molina
Encarnación Molina
@whitefish281658 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

Just reading this, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s the key detail here. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.

Dylan Dupuis
Dylan Dupuis
@tinylion634144 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another and that friction is hard to ignore At least from my perspective.

Kenzo Robin
Kenzo Robin
@purplecat838507 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Emma Seppanen
Emma Seppanen
@beautifulduck433577 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s the part people are stuck on Hard to say where this lands long term.

Fedora Danchuk
Fedora Danchuk
@redmeercat476796 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

From a practical angle, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.

Christoffer Abraham
Christoffer Abraham
@crazylion871883 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

If we’re being honest, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me Interested to see the follow-up. At least from my perspective.

Waldinélia Novaes
Waldinélia Novaes
@lazygoose580143 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

From the outside, the signal is clear, the strategy less so That’s the key detail here.

Lorena Rodríguez
Lorena Rodríguez
@bluekoala324699 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time. That’s just my read on it.

Luca Evans
Luca Evans
@orangelion270252 · Jan 12, 2026 1:36 pm

From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s the key detail here.

Ananya Bansal
Ananya Bansal
@organicmouse158875 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s the part people are stuck on That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.

Rut Kotlyarevskiy
Rut Kotlyarevskiy
@heavysnake222876 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another

Volkan Bayındır
Volkan Bayındır
@purpleleopard549387 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split Curious how this plays out.

Prathiksha Kamath
Prathiksha Kamath
@heavykoala162113 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. Curious how this plays out. That’s the impression it gives me.

Mustafa Klap
Mustafa Klap
@blackelephant118883 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

I get the idea, the follow-through is what will decide this That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.

Kamila Ditlefsen
Kamila Ditlefsen
@tinyzebra456649 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

Trying to be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Not convinced this is settled yet.

Marye Curvers
Marye Curvers
@silverkoala582934 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

From my side, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified

Kerim Erginsoy
Kerim Erginsoy
@happycat660304 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

From where I sit, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Feels like there’s more coming here.

Astrid Jensen
Astrid Jensen
@purplefrog682210 · Jan 12, 2026 1:35 pm

Bluntly speaking, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split That’s the impression it gives me.

Peyton Clarke
Peyton Clarke
@redpanda346621 · Jan 12, 2026 1:34 pm

From a neutral view, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable Time will tell.

Amelia Brown
Amelia Brown
@ticklishkoala894346 · Jan 12, 2026 1:34 pm

Honestly, the wording alone shifts how people read this At least from my perspective.

Mila Dupont
Mila Dupont
@heavycat566265 · Jan 12, 2026 1:34 pm

From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Adhira Kini
Adhira Kini
@tinydog149810 · Jan 12, 2026 1:34 pm

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s what changes the context. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Finn King
Finn King
@blackswan932529 · Jan 12, 2026 1:34 pm

the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s the part people are stuck on This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Brent Hunt
Brent Hunt
@brownlion292793 · Jan 12, 2026 1:34 pm

this depends heavily on what happens next and that friction is hard to ignore

Tammy Franklin
Tammy Franklin
@blueleopard502220 · Jan 12, 2026 1:33 pm

Real talk, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out. That’s just my read on it.

Osmomisla Smal-Stockiy
Osmomisla Smal-Stockiy
@happyswan193980 · Jan 12, 2026 1:33 pm

From my side, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.

Monisha Saniel
Monisha Saniel
@organicgorilla465765 · Jan 12, 2026 1:33 pm

Just reading this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term.

Noelia Herrera
Noelia Herrera
@orangeduck139317 · Jan 12, 2026 1:33 pm

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts Interested to see the follow-up.

Yar Yizhakevich
Yar Yizhakevich
@tinyrabbit516781 · Jan 12, 2026 1:33 pm

Bluntly speaking, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which explains why reactions are split Not convinced this is settled yet.

Blake Ennis
Blake Ennis
@sadbutterfly219645 · Jan 12, 2026 1:33 pm

Looking at this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which makes the reaction pretty predictable Feels like there’s more coming here.

Daniel Larsen
Daniel Larsen
@goldenmouse607757 · Jan 12, 2026 1:32 pm

From a neutral view, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the impression it gives me.

Téo Carpentier
Téo Carpentier
@bluetiger710120 · Jan 12, 2026 1:32 pm

Looking at this, the follow-through is what will decide this which is why this is getting picked apart Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.

سورنا مرادی
سورنا مرادی
@purplerabbit451553 · Jan 12, 2026 1:32 pm

Stepping back, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate

Christine Bock
Christine Bock
@yellowmouse310961 · Jan 12, 2026 1:32 pm

From a neutral view, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Shravya Chiplunkar
Shravya Chiplunkar
@ticklishmouse864824 · Jan 12, 2026 1:31 pm

At this point, this feels more about execution than intent which is why the comments look the way they do Curious how this plays out.

Helena Picard
Helena Picard
@saddog769187 · Jan 12, 2026 1:31 pm

From a practical angle, this solves one problem while creating another That’s the key detail here. Time will tell.

Daniel Hale
Daniel Hale
@blackostrich945606 · Jan 12, 2026 1:31 pm

the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.