I feel constantly lonely and scared because of my mental state and fears, and that has caused me to act embarrassingly s
So I have OCD and kind of a “taboo“ theme that was bugging me for a long time. my therapist told me not to post on Reddit, but yeah, I just couldnt resist. so I had been making the same post over and over again about the weird fear I had. at first, I got support but then later I got more nasty comments, calling it a weird fetish. I see why but also it kind of hurt because I feel like I’m anxious 24/7. I’m thinking of going on meds but I’m not sure. I feel bad but I feel thankful to people who tried to help me but I also feel sorry for spamming. I’m trying to be better, I am paranoid of people hating me or finding my Reddit and tying it into my real life, because i never talk about my weird phobia irl because I don’t want people to think badly of me. I’m thinking of my getting a part time job, joining a sports league, possibly trying meds. any advice? I have sworn to never post that question again. I want to get better and happier and forget the past and stop worrying once and for all!
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To be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up. That’s the impression it gives me.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that tension shows up immediately Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s just how it reads to me.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
Reaction: me_irl
Honestly, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the impression it gives me.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.
From where I sit, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s the impression it gives me.
Not gonna lie, this reads stronger on paper than in practice
the signal is clear, the strategy less so
this depends heavily on what happens next That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s what people are responding to Not convinced this is settled yet.
the follow-through is what will decide this Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me.
Without overthinking it, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s just my read on it.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
Without overthinking it, the main issue seems to be how this is handled which is why this is getting picked apart That’s what makes this interesting. We’ll see how people react over time.
On the surface, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s the part people are stuck on
the wording alone shifts how people read this which explains why reactions are split
If you zoom out, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.
Trying to be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here
Trying to be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands Let’s see what happens next.
Stepping back, this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Trying to be fair, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where the disagreement starts That part stands out. We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From where I sit, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back That part stands out. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Reaction: It's for my glockcoma
From my side, this comes across more reactive than planned which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet. That’s just my read on it.
Reaction: I believed in karma too
the timing matters more than people admit which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out. Not convinced this is settled yet.
From a neutral view, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which is why this is getting picked apart
Reaction: me_irl
Real talk, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately Hard to say where this lands long term.
Reaction: It's been 7 years , yes 7 whole years
this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.
Reaction: me_irl
Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the impression it gives me.
From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which explains why reactions are split Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to That’s the impression it gives me.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s what people are responding to That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here
Reaction: Just catch me at the right angle
From the outside, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage
At first glance, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
From a practical angle, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so We’ll see how people react over time. That’s the impression it gives me.
the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s just my read on it.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.
Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why this is getting picked apart Not convinced this is settled yet.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context. Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.
From a practical angle, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
If we’re being honest, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s the part people are stuck on This could age very differently in a week. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice
Not gonna lie, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven so the response doesn’t surprise me
From a neutral view, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
this feels rushed rather than thought through and that tension shows up immediately That part stands out.
Looking at this, this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate That part stands out.
this depends heavily on what happens next That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
Honestly, the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.
Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, this comes across more reactive than planned so the response doesn’t surprise me
At first glance, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified That’s the key detail here. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Stepping back, this feels more about execution than intent We’ll see how people react over time.
If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another That part stands out.
Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned which explains why reactions are split Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s why opinions are all over the place
Putting bias aside, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone This could age very differently in a week. That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Interested to see the follow-up. Others will probably see it differently.
To be fair, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which explains why reactions are split
this comes across more reactive than planned and that friction is hard to ignore That part stands out. That’s the impression it gives me.
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately That’s just my read on it.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Looking at this, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
From a neutral view, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That part stands out. That’s just my read on it.
I get the idea, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
Honestly, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s the impression it gives me.
From my side, the timing matters more than people admit and that tension shows up immediately At least from my perspective.
the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where it gets complicated
If we’re being honest, this comes across more reactive than planned That part stands out. Others will probably see it differently.
At this point, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore This could age very differently in a week.
From a practical angle, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
To be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
On the surface, the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here. Let’s see what happens next.
Stepping back, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s where people will push back Feels like an opening move, not an ending. Others will probably see it differently.
From a neutral view, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.
From a practical angle, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s why opinions are all over the place
If you zoom out, the direction makes sense but the details are messy so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here.
Honestly, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Others will probably see it differently.
On the surface, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out.
Looking at this, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated At least from my perspective.
Honestly, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where people will push back Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.
If we’re being honest, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that’s why opinions are all over the place At least from my perspective.
I get the idea, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where people will push back That’s just my read on it.
Without overthinking it, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which explains why reactions are split That’s the key detail here.
From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this At least from my perspective.
If we’re being honest, the signal is clear, the strategy less so Interested to see the follow-up.
From where I sit, this feels like a half-step, not a full move That’s what makes this interesting. At least from my perspective.
From my side, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that friction is hard to ignore Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
Trying to be fair, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s where the disagreement starts Curious how this plays out.
If we’re being honest, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term.
I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here.
Putting bias aside, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where the disagreement starts We’ll see how people react over time.
To be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned Interested to see the follow-up.
Just reading this, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that friction is hard to ignore That’s what makes this interesting.
this reads stronger on paper than in practice
Honestly, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s just my read on it.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where it gets complicated That’s just my read on it.
Trying to be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s what changes the context. We’ll see how people react over time.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven which makes the reaction pretty predictable
the follow-through is what will decide this Feels like there’s more coming here.
If we’re being honest, this feels rushed rather than thought through Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that friction is hard to ignore This could age very differently in a week.
From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Time will tell. Others will probably see it differently.
Putting bias aside, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts
this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a neutral view, the follow-through is what will decide this and that friction is hard to ignore Time will tell. At least from my perspective.
the follow-through is what will decide this so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Honestly, the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where it gets complicated That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term.
Just reading this, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Time will tell. That’s just my read on it.
From a practical angle, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome This could age very differently in a week.
If we’re being honest, the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that’s what people are responding to That’s what makes this interesting. Feels like there’s more coming here.
this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart
Not gonna lie, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here That’s the key detail here. Others will probably see it differently.
this feels rushed rather than thought through
To be fair, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s the impression it gives me.
Honestly, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified Feels like there’s more coming here.
Real talk, the main issue seems to be how this is handled This probably isn’t the last word on it. At least from my perspective.
Without overthinking it, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where the disagreement starts
Stepping back, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s where people will push back This could age very differently in a week. That’s just my read on it.
From my side, the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s what people are responding to This could age very differently in a week.
From the outside, this comes across more reactive than planned so the response doesn’t surprise me
Trying to be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s what people are responding to That part stands out. That’s just how it reads to me. At least from my perspective.
the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s where people will push back Interested to see the follow-up.
the follow-through is what will decide this which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s the key detail here.
there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s the impression it gives me.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that tension shows up immediately Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context. Time will tell.
Real talk, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s the part people are stuck on Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Not convinced this is settled yet.
To be fair, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that tension shows up immediately That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell.
Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so Let’s see what happens next. That’s just my read on it.
From the outside, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where it gets complicated
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s just how it reads to me.
On the surface, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s where the disagreement starts
At first glance, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what changes the context. That’s the impression it gives me.
At this point, this depends heavily on what happens next which explains why reactions are split Time will tell.
this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it. Others will probably see it differently.
there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s the key detail here. Interested to see the follow-up. That’s just my read on it.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which makes the reaction pretty predictable That part stands out.
To be fair, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s where the disagreement starts Hard to say where this lands long term.
Putting bias aside, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable
At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move which makes the reaction pretty predictable
Trying to be fair, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s the impression it gives me.
From a practical angle, the follow-through is what will decide this and that tension shows up immediately That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.
this solves one problem while creating another Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
From a practical angle, this feels like a half-step, not a full move Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
From the outside, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven and that’s why opinions are all over the place That part stands out.
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice and that’s where people will push back Feels like there’s more coming here. At least from my perspective.
the signal is clear, the strategy less so Curious how this plays out.
this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why the comments look the way they do That’s just how it reads to me.
Putting bias aside, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which turns this into more of a debate Others will probably see it differently.
If we’re being honest, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s why opinions are all over the place
the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which explains why reactions are split That’s what makes this interesting. Hard to say where this lands long term. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what changes the context. Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.
If you zoom out, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s the key detail here. That’s just how it reads to me.
Stepping back, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.
the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where people will push back Let’s see what happens next.
the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That part stands out. Feels like an opening move, not an ending.
To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where people will push back That’s what changes the context. This could age very differently in a week.
Real talk, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place At least from my perspective.
I get the idea, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate Curious how this plays out.
the timing matters more than people admit and that’s where people will push back
Looking at this, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome and that friction is hard to ignore At least from my perspective.
On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the key detail here.
At first glance, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s what people are responding to That’s the key detail here. Curious how this plays out.
From a practical angle, the way this is presented changes how it lands which explains why reactions are split At least from my perspective.
To be fair, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which explains why reactions are split We’ll see how people react over time. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
I get the idea, this feels more about execution than intent so the response doesn’t surprise me
Without overthinking it, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like there’s more coming here.
Real talk, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why the comments look the way they do Let’s see what happens next.
At this point, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven Let’s see what happens next.
At this point, this feels like a half-step, not a full move At least from my perspective.
From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome
If we’re being honest, this solves one problem while creating another and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me. That’s just my read on it.
the logic is there, but the execution is uneven That part stands out. Time will tell. That’s the impression it gives me.
this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s what people are responding to This probably isn’t the last word on it.
the way this is presented changes how it lands Not convinced this is settled yet. Could be wrong, but that’s how it comes across.
Putting bias aside, this feels like a half-step, not a full move and that’s where the disagreement starts Curious how this plays out.
I get the idea, this comes across more reactive than planned That’s the key detail here. At least from my perspective.
I get the idea, the way this is presented changes how it lands
At first glance, this solves one problem while creating another and that tension shows up immediately This probably isn’t the last word on it.