Magdalena Vidal

I don’t cry, and it’s troubling me a lot.

I cannot cry, the last time I cried was when I was still a child. Even during relatives’ deaths, I could not cry, despite every other member of the family doing so. I was the only one.
And now, even when me and my lover go through terrible things, she is the only one who cries, I don’t, and it makes her feel like I don’t care enough to cry, that it doesn’t affect me nearly as much.
But it does, I do feel terrible, I do feel like crying, I feel a knot forming in my throat, a pain in my chest, I tremble and shake and god knows how I can describe it all. I do feel things, but I simply cannot cry, and I very honestly do not know the reason, but I really want to be able to cry, I want to start crying, so that I can show my feelings, and so that she no longer thinks I don’t care about her, that she is not worthy enough for me to shed a single tear over her.

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Stephanie Mitchell
Stephanie Mitchell
@angrysnake525404 · Jan 11, 2026 11:55 am

If you zoom out, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Sofia Ibáñez
Sofia Ibáñez
@blackfrog649906 · Jan 11, 2026 11:54 am

Bluntly speaking, this feels like a half-step, not a full move so the response doesn’t surprise me That’s the impression it gives me.

محمدامين جعفری
محمدامين جعفری
@lazyzebra324507 · Jan 11, 2026 11:51 am

Without overthinking it, this feels rushed rather than thought through which is why this is getting picked apart

Harvey Owens
Harvey Owens
@lazymouse255548 · Jan 11, 2026 11:48 am

Reaction: Have your insurance people speak to my people

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Harvey Owens
Harvey Owens
@lazymouse255548 · Jan 11, 2026 11:48 am

there’s a gap between the message and the outcome Hard to say where this lands long term.

Lada Subašić
Lada Subašić
@heavytiger719502 · Jan 11, 2026 11:46 am

At first glance, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where it gets complicated Time will tell.

Liliana Lilleeng
Liliana Lilleeng
@organicfish825620 · Jan 11, 2026 11:37 am

the follow-through is what will decide this and that’s what people are responding to That’s what changes the context.

Đoka Blažić
Đoka Blažić
@purpleelephant717416 · Jan 11, 2026 11:34 am

Reaction: Jiggle physics

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Isabel Pastor
Isabel Pastor
@bluepeacock474481 · Jan 11, 2026 11:33 am

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so

Snizhana Greba
Snizhana Greba
@ticklishbear212897 · Jan 11, 2026 11:31 am

At this point, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where people will push back At least from my perspective.

Danuta Sandner
Danuta Sandner
@browncat364523 · Jan 11, 2026 11:19 am

Bluntly speaking, this comes across more reactive than planned That part stands out. Let’s see what happens next.

Dominic Asbjørnsen
Dominic Asbjørnsen
@tinybear361975 · Jan 11, 2026 11:19 am

Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.

Sílnior Fogaça
Sílnior Fogaça
@crazymouse132575 · Jan 11, 2026 11:17 am

Bluntly speaking, the signal is clear, the strategy less so and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone That’s the key detail here. That’s just my read on it.

Klaus-Werner Ihle
Klaus-Werner Ihle
@purpleduck431702 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Reaction: Why am I scared? Probably because one time my grandma got pulled over when I was a kid and she told the cop that her bad driving was because of me and he came to my window. I didnt do anythi

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Herminia Jennings
Herminia Jennings
@silverleopard975454 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Trying to be fair, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so and that tension shows up immediately Let’s see what happens next. At least from my perspective.

Magdalena Vidal
Magdalena Vidal
@smalllion338301 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands

Andre Bertrand
Andre Bertrand
@yellowfish477657 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Stephanie Mitchell
Stephanie Mitchell
@angrysnake525404 · Jan 11, 2026 10:57 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Noam Lemoine
Noam Lemoine
@bigduck375171 · Jan 11, 2026 10:57 am

I get the idea, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That’s what changes the context.

Willard Russell
Willard Russell
@blackmeercat220250 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

From a neutral view, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That’s what makes this interesting. Interested to see the follow-up.

Andre Bertrand
Andre Bertrand
@yellowfish477657 · Jan 11, 2026 10:53 am

Just reading this, this solves one problem while creating another That’s what changes the context. That’s just my read on it.

Felecia Sanchez
Felecia Sanchez
@happysnake410546 · Jan 11, 2026 10:50 am

I get the idea, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which makes the reaction pretty predictable That’s what changes the context.

Alicia Henrichs
Alicia Henrichs
@heavygorilla316421 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

Reaction: Why am I scared? Probably because one time my grandma got pulled over when I was a kid and she told the cop that her bad driving was because of me and he came to my window. I didnt do anythi

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رادین سالاری
رادین سالاری
@angrykoala740134 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

Putting bias aside, the follow-through is what will decide this Time will tell.

Danuta Sandner
Danuta Sandner
@browncat364523 · Jan 11, 2026 10:24 am

Real talk, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up.

Ingeborg Fjellanger
Ingeborg Fjellanger
@heavymeercat875167 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: And I always fall for it!

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Maddison Berry
Maddison Berry
@goldengoose801407 · Jan 11, 2026 10:18 am

Reaction: Conformity Gate

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Raquel Núñez
Raquel Núñez
@angrycat780421 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: Reality is an Illusion

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Sonia Horton
Sonia Horton
@angrymouse156208 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: Reddits privacy feature is so useless

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Aaron Esparza
Aaron Esparza
@organicdog904567 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Gonneke De Rover
Gonneke De Rover
@bigcat537357 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: They both have a serious jaw condition so it should be a fair fight

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Luz Serrano
Luz Serrano
@organicfish966252 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: They both have a serious jaw condition so it should be a fair fight

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Nurdan Durmaz
Nurdan Durmaz
@ticklishlion781102 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Vilhelm Nesheim
Vilhelm Nesheim
@orangemouse511157 · Jan 11, 2026 10:17 am

Reaction: Me irl

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آوینا قاسمی
آوینا قاسمی
@sadelephant945286 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up.

Barış Akar
Barış Akar
@sadlion862139 · Jan 11, 2026 10:09 am

Reaction: Not again.

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Isabella Smith
Isabella Smith
@organicgoose840310 · Jan 11, 2026 10:08 am

To be fair, this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart Curious how this plays out. Others will probably see it differently.

Sandra Day
Sandra Day
@bluekoala417779 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Bastien Michel
Bastien Michel
@crazysnake573688 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Morgan Haidari
Morgan Haidari
@blackbear564215 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: me_irl

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Othmar Prill
Othmar Prill
@smallmeercat161790 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: I expected better from you

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Harley Turner
Harley Turner
@crazyelephant933675 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: Just...why??

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Vanessa Stewart
Vanessa Stewart
@tinywolf178697 · Jan 10, 2026 8:25 pm

Reaction: "I Can't Eat This!" ~Pig

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Hrithik Chiplunkar
Hrithik Chiplunkar
@blackpanda712844 · Jan 10, 2026 8:24 pm

Bluntly speaking, this feels rushed rather than thought through That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.