Cesar Peña

How to come off more confident and assertive even as an introvert?

What should I do here? I suck at humor and knowing what to say to people idk well.
I just awkwardly smile or nod if I don’t know what to say

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Kimaya Saha
Kimaya Saha
@yellowmeercat539957 · Jan 11, 2026 11:18 am

the timing matters more than people admit and that’s why opinions are all over the place

Edna Bishop
Edna Bishop
@whitesnake994755 · Jan 11, 2026 11:11 am

the main issue seems to be how this is handled and that tension shows up immediately

Rosel Wölfle
Rosel Wölfle
@smallgoose418897 · Jan 11, 2026 11:03 am

Trying to be fair, the way this is presented changes how it lands

Zorina Zolotnickiy
Zorina Zolotnickiy
@blackgoose368866 · Jan 11, 2026 10:58 am

At this point, this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split That part stands out.

Alfonso Vicente
Alfonso Vicente
@silverostrich447724 · Jan 11, 2026 10:55 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this That’s what makes this interesting. This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s just my read on it.

Dobroslav Rađen
Dobroslav Rađen
@whitebird871189 · Jan 11, 2026 10:41 am

this comes across more reactive than planned which turns this into more of a debate At least from my perspective.

Dawn Johnson
Dawn Johnson
@blackbutterfly681774 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

At first glance, this feels rushed rather than thought through and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone Curious how this plays out.

Dawn Johnson
Dawn Johnson
@blackbutterfly681774 · Jan 11, 2026 10:15 am

Reaction: me_irl

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Felizitas Gerken
Felizitas Gerken
@organicmouse952330 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

Reaction: I'm recreating 1939

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Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

From my side, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome which is why the comments look the way they do This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Osmar da Rocha
Osmar da Rocha
@goldenrabbit997350 · Jan 11, 2026 10:07 am

Reaction: Damn the Elighisl language

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Eeli Wiitala
Eeli Wiitala
@orangecat219799 · Jan 10, 2026 8:26 pm

Reaction: Kelpie... not again! Witcher 4

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Gaby Gabriels
Gaby Gabriels
@yellowzebra904790 · Jan 10, 2026 8:26 pm

Reaction: The only two I could think of at the top of my head.

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Aidan White
Aidan White
@goldentiger596155 · Jan 10, 2026 8:26 pm

Reaction: Me irl

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Milovan Živković
Milovan Živković
@heavypeacock773407 · Jan 10, 2026 8:26 pm

From my side, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which explains why reactions are split