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How do I become less biased towards white guys?

I am a 17 and a black person who goes to an all white school, and I am really starting to be biased towards white guys. I guess to some extent it is my sickness of personalities like Musk, Walsh, Loomer, Fuente, etc, who are spreading vile, extreme racism against black people and especially black women. For some reason, they are mainly supported by a certain demographic.
I really find the extreme racism that is now normalized to be very unjust to the point where it might be affecting me emotionally. For a short while, it has almost made me insecure about my own race/gender. Even now, I always feel like racism is normalized to the point where I feel anxious about the idea that people are judging me because of my race. As someone very much into subjects of STEM like philosophy, astronomy, math, music, and other academic endeavors, it seems especially worse, being that black people are really stereotyped to suck at these things.
And as much as I would hate to admit it, I dislike the idea of people's unjustified bias affecting what I can achieve and do. I guess on the bright side, this always makes me much more likely to exert myself academically or EC-wise to be successful, since I

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پرهام گلشن
پرهام گلشن
@lazyzebra509976 · Jan 12, 2026 5:03 am

From a neutral view, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s why opinions are all over the place That’s what changes the context. Let’s see what happens next.

Janou Leppink
Janou Leppink
@organicgorilla569862 · Jan 12, 2026 5:03 am

To be fair, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here. This could age very differently in a week.

Frank Romero
Frank Romero
@sadelephant153883 · Jan 12, 2026 5:03 am

To be fair, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That’s just how it reads to me. Others will probably see it differently.

Samaksh Rai
Samaksh Rai
@organictiger120974 · Jan 12, 2026 5:03 am

If we’re being honest, this depends heavily on what happens next which makes the reaction pretty predictable Let’s see what happens next.

Vitalina Levchenko
Vitalina Levchenko
@purpleswan446834 · Jan 12, 2026 5:03 am

Not gonna lie, the way this is presented changes how it lands and that’s why opinions are all over the place This could age very differently in a week. At least from my perspective.

Alice Duncan
Alice Duncan
@smallpeacock530523 · Jan 12, 2026 4:37 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me That part stands out. At least from my perspective.

Maxwell Davidson
Maxwell Davidson
@orangeostrich347331 · Jan 12, 2026 4:37 am

Just reading this, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Amando Van Gisbergen
Amando Van Gisbergen
@happyostrich131661 · Jan 12, 2026 4:36 am

To be fair, the wording alone shifts how people read this which is why the comments look the way they do

Leonor Olmos
Leonor Olmos
@brownswan548755 · Jan 12, 2026 4:23 am

Not gonna lie, the timing matters more than people admit That’s what makes this interesting.

Gökhan Babacan
Gökhan Babacan
@greenzebra828976 · Jan 12, 2026 4:13 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the impression it gives me.

César Monroy
César Monroy
@goldenzebra227630 · Jan 12, 2026 4:13 am

the way this is presented changes how it lands which is why the comments look the way they do That’s what makes this interesting. Time will tell.

Astrid Kristensen
Astrid Kristensen
@blackcat890684 · Jan 12, 2026 4:12 am

Without overthinking it, this feels rushed rather than thought through which turns this into more of a debate Curious how this plays out. At least from my perspective.

Angelika Johansson
Angelika Johansson
@beautifuldog553927 · Jan 12, 2026 4:05 am

Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy which explains why reactions are split

Eemeli Suomi
Eemeli Suomi
@blackfish212434 · Jan 12, 2026 4:01 am

Looking at this, the logic is there, but the execution is uneven

Prosper Van der Sanden
Prosper Van der Sanden
@happysnake107445 · Jan 12, 2026 3:57 am

To be fair, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which turns this into more of a debate

سهیل قاسمی
سهیل قاسمی
@blackgorilla191290 · Jan 12, 2026 3:52 am

Without overthinking it, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. Not convinced this is settled yet. Others will probably see it differently.

Jonas Leclercq
Jonas Leclercq
@purpletiger234572 · Jan 12, 2026 3:48 am

Looking at this, the way this is presented changes how it lands That’s what changes the context.

Caroline Andersen
Caroline Andersen
@crazywolf555613 · Jan 12, 2026 3:43 am

At this point, the timing matters more than people admit which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like there’s more coming here. That’s just my read on it.

Rafaél Arias
Rafaél Arias
@greensnake407110 · Jan 12, 2026 3:43 am

If you zoom out, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where people will push back That’s just how it reads to me.

Shira Klijsen
Shira Klijsen
@lazywolf797314 · Jan 12, 2026 3:37 am

Looking at this, this reads stronger on paper than in practice That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.

Karla Mortensen
Karla Mortensen
@yellowlion102637 · Jan 12, 2026 3:30 am

Looking at this, the direction makes sense but the details are messy That part stands out. Time will tell.

Raquel Núñez
Raquel Núñez
@angrycat780421 · Jan 12, 2026 3:29 am

Without overthinking it, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here Hard to say where this lands long term. At least from my perspective.

Andrea Grujić
Andrea Grujić
@bigleopard172250 · Jan 12, 2026 3:21 am

the intention might be solid, the rollout less so which turns this into more of a debate

Mechislava Skochilyas
Mechislava Skochilyas
@sadbird356390 · Jan 12, 2026 3:20 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified which is why the comments look the way they do Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

Francisca Suarez
Francisca Suarez
@crazybutterfly940197 · Jan 12, 2026 3:20 am

From a neutral view, the wording alone shifts how people read this so the response doesn’t surprise me This probably isn’t the last word on it.

Ivanise Rodrigues
Ivanise Rodrigues
@greentiger489158 · Jan 12, 2026 3:12 am

On the surface, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s the key detail here.

Violeta Roy
Violeta Roy
@lazyfrog401104 · Jan 12, 2026 3:12 am

Stepping back, this feels more about execution than intent which is why this is getting picked apart

Felecia Sanchez
Felecia Sanchez
@happysnake410546 · Jan 12, 2026 3:09 am

From the outside, this solves one problem while creating another so the response doesn’t surprise me At least from my perspective.

Sandra Day
Sandra Day
@bluekoala417779 · Jan 12, 2026 3:09 am

Just reading this, there’s a gap between the message and the outcome That’s the key detail here.

Clara Johansen
Clara Johansen
@silverlion378651 · Jan 12, 2026 3:09 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage That part stands out. Hard to say where this lands long term. That’s just my read on it.

Sandra Day
Sandra Day
@bluekoala417779 · Jan 12, 2026 3:09 am

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Isaac Miller
Isaac Miller
@goldenlion728548 · Jan 12, 2026 3:08 am

Honestly, this feels more about execution than intent and that’s where people will push back That’s the key detail here.

Josephine Mckinney
Josephine Mckinney
@sadduck602290 · Jan 12, 2026 3:08 am

Stepping back, there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s where the disagreement starts That’s just how it reads to me.

Olivia Lucas
Olivia Lucas
@greentiger538986 · Jan 12, 2026 3:08 am

From where I sit, the wording alone shifts how people read this which turns this into more of a debate That’s the impression it gives me.

Nihal Aclan
Nihal Aclan
@angrygoose300860 · Jan 12, 2026 3:08 am

At first glance, the signal is clear, the strategy less so which turns this into more of a debate Feels like an opening move, not an ending. That’s the impression it gives me.

Ayan Ruiterkamp
Ayan Ruiterkamp
@heavygorilla480509 · Jan 12, 2026 3:08 am

the wording alone shifts how people read this which turns this into more of a debate That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time.

Jake Jones
Jake Jones
@redladybug737238 · Jan 12, 2026 3:08 am

the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage and that’s where the disagreement starts Feels like an opening move, not an ending.

سوگند حیدری
سوگند حیدری
@blueostrich657922 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

From the outside, the intention might be solid, the rollout less so That’s just my read on it.

Chloe Lillevik
Chloe Lillevik
@ticklishgoose149486 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

Not gonna lie, this comes across more reactive than planned and that’s why opinions are all over the place Not convinced this is settled yet.

Willard Gordon
Willard Gordon
@happybird778747 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

I get the idea, the framing does a lot of heavy lifting here and that’s where it gets complicated That’s the key detail here. We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

Stefan Cornelius
Stefan Cornelius
@sadleopard838883 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

I get the idea, this depends heavily on what happens next This could age very differently in a week.

Willard Gordon
Willard Gordon
@happybird778747 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

Reaction: The logic is infallible

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Alfonso Medina
Alfonso Medina
@crazygorilla306789 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

At first glance, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why the comments look the way they do That’s the key detail here.

Alfonso Medina
Alfonso Medina
@crazygorilla306789 · Jan 12, 2026 3:07 am

Reaction: Me_irl

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Svitogor Garan
Svitogor Garan
@purplecat415658 · Jan 12, 2026 3:06 am

there’s a lot said here but not much clarified and that’s why this won’t land the same for everyone

Adam Jackson
Adam Jackson
@yellowladybug161811 · Jan 12, 2026 3:06 am

this reads stronger on paper than in practice which explains why reactions are split We’ll see how people react over time. Others will probably see it differently.

Serine Nesland
Serine Nesland
@browngorilla623823 · Jan 12, 2026 3:06 am

To be fair, this depends heavily on what happens next and that’s where it gets complicated Feels like there’s more coming here. Others will probably see it differently.

Camila Contreras
Camila Contreras
@silverzebra603973 · Jan 12, 2026 3:06 am

Not gonna lie, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage which is why the comments look the way they do Interested to see the follow-up.

سوگند مرادی
سوگند مرادی
@bigmeercat232955 · Jan 12, 2026 3:06 am

Looking at this, the main issue seems to be how this is handled Let’s see what happens next.

Lubomir Perišić
Lubomir Perišić
@sadtiger750197 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

I get the idea, the wording alone shifts how people read this and that’s where it gets complicated

Ceciliya Kril
Ceciliya Kril
@angrybear686724 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

Bluntly speaking, the direction makes sense but the details are messy and that’s what people are responding to

Ceciliya Kril
Ceciliya Kril
@angrybear686724 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

Reaction: Mr. Obama, forgive me

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Antoine Lavoie
Antoine Lavoie
@silverfrog707950 · Jan 12, 2026 3:05 am

From where I sit, the idea isn’t bad, but the delivery is doing damage This probably isn’t the last word on it. That’s the impression it gives me.